As an Asexual, I feel like I have no right to give my opinion or my opinion doesn't matter when it comes to things regarding intimacy and relationships and stuff like that.
I've been told that's not true, but it still bothers me.
And it's not the same as one of those "You don't even have kids don't criticize my parenting!" things. That's always a dumb thing to say to me. I can't cook, but I can tell you if your cooking is bad xD
It's on a whole different layer...
Someone was talking about how they don't understand host clubs in Japan because you pay for something that's not real. You're not getting real love or care - you're paying for it. And what if you get attached only to remember it's not real and they didn't see the point in it.
As a woman, I feel like most women want the same things - to be complimented and be made to feel like she's cute and pretty and boost her self esteem.
But I feel like my opinion doesn't count because I'm Asexual and I don't feel certain ways other people do.
A good time is good time and I have no desire or expectations for anything more than that.
Because it doesn't matter to me.
It's impossible for me to feel anything negative like hurt feelings or betrayal or jealousy because I have no feelings for anyone.
So my point being, if someone were to ask me how I'd feel if my boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on me, and I give my response - it doesn't feel like I'm allowed to voice my opinion because I don't and will never love someone in that way.
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Do you think anyone's opinion is invalid or do people's opinions always matter?