Ey-o!
I haven't popped in here for way too long. Thought I'd stop by to see how you were doing, love.
How are things going?
By the way, I think you are right - if you feed it, water it, and take it inside when it rains, it's kinda your cat. >>
A friend of mine has a cat named Cow Kitty (I'm sure it had an actual name, but her mom always called it Cow Kitty, so it's name is now Cow Kitty) that she kinda "stole" from her neighbors - he was an outdoor cat that belonged to her neighbors, but he liked to hang out at her house more than theirs. Her mom fed him every day and let him in when he cried at the door. One day he didn't leave. The neighbors came over complaining about them stealing their cat, but he wouldn't leave, so he's theirs now. X'D I think he just like them better.