I visited jacob's website, the surname is quite interesting
@Julez: naah, I live with my maternal grandma

My dad called me yesterday, but I think he was drunk/high, not sure...

Glad I told him I'm at work and would call him back. But he told me "okay, but if I don't pick up, it means I'm finally asleep at last *lol*" and when I called him after work, he didn't pick up, so I was happy XD
Yeah, especially his mom was basically both mom and dad for him (his step-dad was just living next to them kind of, he never was a father to him, they actually hated each other's guts, and only started talking after bf's mom died, and now he treats Dami -bf- as his errand boy, it's annoying). He's only ever been raised by his mom and grand-grandmom, and grand-grandmom's sister, so he was basically surrounded by only women and he's quite attached to his mom's maiden name. At least he'd feel he belongs to the family he was raised in, he's felt excluded all his life because of his different last name.
On the other hand, I think he may be too lazy to change it XD
@Haze: *makes the airstrip with lights*
Is it really so much chatting?