Yeah, our period talks never end
I had no idea it's the pads that smell! they had me fooled with all the nice "fresh scents" and all that crap

I'm gonna have to try out some things from now on, 'cause that won't do anymore. I object to smelling badly during the most uncomfortable days of my month.
I track my periods with a red sharpie in my calendar. I put a red spot on the 28th day and I know that right around that day I might be getting the flow, then I circle the actual day it came. I do tend to forget what the doom date is right after I mark it but then my pms is a huge indicator. If I get too irritable I check the calendar and it's always like: "yep, in ten days time dear auntie will come to visit. Hopefully I won't murder Ash till then".
Luckily I'm not such a huge gremlin since I'm on the depression meds, that really calmed me down. So grateful for that.
Cramps are in my genes. My sister always had them, my mom did, her father's side women also did. My maternal grandma's side apparently didn't have that problem, but my grandma says my mom really had it bad. And whenever I talk to my dad and mention I'm having the pain from the days, he's like "aw, yeah, your mom suffered from that too".
I feel you on the mess. Sometimes I'm this close to killing Ash for leaving a trail of filth everywhere he goes

Like, I know I'm messy, but not filthy kind of messy. I do leave some stuff where they don't belong or I might leave some dirty (or once worn and could use them again anytime) clothes on the chair, but I throw my trash to the bin (and the right bin, he almost outright refuses to sort for recycling), I take out my dirty dishes to the sink etc. Ash on the other hand, he leaves chaos in the kitchen. True, most is from the cooking because it's black magic to me. But making sandwiches leaves crumbs everywhere, foils after finished hams/cheeses left on the counter, cucumber peels left to dry out (or worse, put into the sink where I can't even see them until I do the dishes)... It's filth. Yesterday he squeezed some orange juice for himself. Great, but... the counter was covered in sticky juice and when I confronted him, he said he didn't clean it because he didn't even notice he made a mess
Don't make me start on the bathroom filth. I get that he's too tall to comfortably brush his teeth by the sink but damn it, if the tooth paste goes down your elbow and onto the side (and outside) of the sink and then to the floor, do you mind cleaning that? It leaves greyish marks all over. Disgusting.
And then my mom comes over and she tells me our bathroom is filthy (ha, don't mention her own messy apartment, lol) and I'm like "it's his effing mess, what do you want me to do?!

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Lol, sorry about that rant XD
Truth be told, I did talk to Ash about all this and he agreed to try a bit more. I guess he's still in the early stages of learning and making better habits
