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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Mar 30th, '18, 03:53    


Lady River

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Your sister is okay?

Yeah if I tried to swear I'd get told off. Or threatened with the soap.. you know wash mouth out with soap.

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Mar 30th, '18, 15:14    


memoriam

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Moi, I agree with you, let your sister know keeping quiet doesn't make unpleasant things go away, objecting to them does. If she feels something isn't right, she should take action like she did. It's not even easier to stay quiet and do nothing, it's actually painful a lot of times. Not to mention unhealthy.
Thumbs up for your sis, o3ob :qh:

@River: I'd get threatened with salt or pepper on my tongue XD

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Mar 30th, '18, 15:27    


jacobgrey

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My mum just gave me the death stare if I ever said a rude word (still does even though I'm an adult haha). But I don't think bitch was in the list... she wouldn't mind me saying it lol XD But I would probably have been told off by the teacher at least.

I ended up getting into a fight when I was about 13. These girls were trying to bully my friends so in the end I stood up to them. They tried to jump me but I was taking karate lessons haha. I got suspended for a day for punching them so my mum took me out for pizza because she's chill when it comes to standing up for yourself.

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Mar 30th, '18, 21:24    


Moi

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She is okay. She told me it just happened to her friend and later said it happened to her too.
She said the girl that did it is always getting in trouble.

I remember this girl badmouthing me when I was sitting a few feet away.
Another girl said "Don't talk about her when she's right there!".
Letting people treat me badly led to me treating myself badly because I didn't think I was good and wasn't worth anything.
I don't want anyone to feel that way.
It also left me with a lot of anger inside me, which comes out from time to time.
I used to punch the walls and furniture or even myself because I didn't speak up or try to fight back.

I keep getting told the only way to get people to leave you alone is react physically.
Like if they mess with you, punch them, and they won't do it again.
But where I live is apparently...different from everywhere else.
If someone hits you and you hit them back, you can get in trouble.
Doesn't matter if you were the victim, you hit someone too.

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Mar 30th, '18, 23:38    


memoriam

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I feel you Moi, I really do *hugs* I'm similar.

Maybe a drastic example but in US if you kill in self-defence you're a hero because you got the bad guy. Here you get a life in prison, because you killed, doesn't matter if it was either you or that guy. Great, huh?
My point is, not everything that other people say is okay, sometimes you gotta stand up to the whole town or system. And that really sucks in general.

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Mar 31st, '18, 00:36    


jacobgrey

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I don't believe physical violence is always the answer. It's possible to cut someone down with words too. I guess it's all about the particular situation and who you're reacting to.

But yeah, it seems reasonable to punish someone for fighting even if they didn't start it. I accepted the punishment because I could have tried to run away or call a teacher or something, but I didn't, I just punched them in the face. Which felt really good but wasn't necessarily the smartest move XD

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Mar 31st, '18, 01:20    


Moi

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I don't think violence is always the answer either, but I think certain people only understand certain things xD
If you talk to someone and tell them to leave you alone and they don't WELL 8u

To this day, I'm scared of conflict and just take what people dish out.
Unless I've totally had enough and explode on them.

I let things pile up all the time. Then I eventually explode. So if I've piled things up and I drop an ice cream, I will start bawling and people are like "It's just an ice cream >>" and NO it's not just ice cream. The ice cream was the straw that broke the camel's back xD

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Mar 31st, '18, 04:53    


Lady River

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I knew a guy in high school who was being bullied and in a headlock and he used self defense to get out of the headlock but then he got a few day suspension. Where as the bully didn't..


I thought it was unfair in a way.. that the bully wasn't punished.

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Mar 31st, '18, 16:44    


jacobgrey

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The bully should definitely be punished too. I bet he or his parents managed to talk their way out of it and blame it all on the other boy.

I let things pile up too. And it usually comes out over something seemingly small like housework >.> like I will scream at J for not washing something up properly. These days he often says, "I like you so much more now you're not stressed and mean all the time" XD I feel a little bad for the past but, well, he does have a habit of saying stupid things like that which give me room to get more annoyed with him XD

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 Post subject: Re: THE MYSTERIOUS JELLYFISH DOMINATION ♡
Posted: Mar 31st, '18, 23:54    


memoriam

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I don't like violence, I don't use violence. My definition of violence is screaming, that's already doing it for me XD
Although I can sometimes slap Ash's hands or arms, but it's not hard and usually still playful :mcgrin:

But sometimes your instincts act before you can think it through and you end upbeing suspended or something, because you could've called a teacher... well, some circumstances need actions right away, not calling a teacher, for what you're being called a wuss or something. If you slap someone once, it gives you a kind of respect from your enemies, they know you're not that easy :mcsmirk: :mcsmirk:

Don't even make me start on bottling things inside, I do that all the time and flip out usually during pms about something like trash being improperly throwin into the trash bin XD
And I second what jacob said about bf giving room for getting annoyed, it's like, he usually doesn't say these things, but when he does, he says them when I'm a pmsing goblin :mcargh: :mcargh: #goodtimingbro

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Dec 7th 2019, R.I.P. Candy. I'm sorry, my sweet little rumball...
Jan 8th 2020, R.I.P. Cotton. Farewell my golden adventurer </3
May 15th 2021, R.I.P. Kreska. I love you, angel...
Feb 3rd 2022, R.I.P. Kropka. Goodbye, my *starshine*
Nov 27th 2022, R.I.P. Strzałka. You will be missed, lazy ball.
Jan 5th 2023, R.I.P. Iskra. Spark until the end.
Jan 26th 2024, R.I.P. Mocha. You can fool around now, baby <3
Feb 22nd 2024, R.I.P. Latte. Now you are truly a free spirit...
May 29th 2025, R.I.P. Ścieżka. The toughest fighter. We miss you dearly.


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