True, there is no use talking about it, I just hope the best.

I feel a bit hypocritical tho, because I feel like I shouldn't be donating this month. I don't have to. But I'd like to. And I'm having a battle in my head ... I do have some savings and I love this site sooo.... I think I'll do it anyway xD; /so good at saving money

Hm? Why shouldn't you donate this month?

Because I'm in a bad place financially. But it's too late, I already made the transfer, because I remembered that I was told I should reward myself somehow. And kofk is my safe space, and since I don't want it to disappear, I donated x.x

Ooh, I see. D: Well, I hope things get better for you!

I know them feels. Peter bought me a shirt and with a bit of extra $ I still had I bought a pair of hosiery with it too from black milk clothing and I feel kind of guilty but the other part is like yaaaaaaaay pretty cute shirt and awesome hosiery.

Also I bought some items from the bodyshop last weekend too...

and now Peter's bought a new phone, it's on a plan and..it's going to be $104 a month. Because it's for the phone, a insurance thingo, and paying off accessories that came with the plan. Imo that is a good plan really.. just yeah. And I still have no job :(

I just feel really guilty.

I feel you. I guilt trip myself every time I go out to eat or buy things.

Aha, I feel guilty if I eat out too regularly, but most of the time it's because I'm also hanging out with friends, so. XD;

Also feel you :(
I tend to think about purchases as "need it" then comes "is useful, but do not really need it" "it's nice, I really wanted this so much in my life" and "it's nice, I did not know that sth like this exists, but now that I know I want it" :D

I should try harder to buy stuff from the first category only.

If I think about it, I have too much clothes anyway ._. But I've been doing good lately, did not buy anything in this area!
But I've spent so much on food...

Aha. My thoughts generally go:

1. Is it affordable?
2. Do I really want it?
3. Do I really need it?
4. Will I regret not getting it?


Like a few weeks ago, my friend told me about a drawing tablet sale. It was definitely affordable, and I kinda wanted it, but in the end, I didn't buy it because I didn't need it. I don't really regret it, but I do think that it would've been nice.

On the other hand, I did buy these custom fandom stamps (like ink stamps) that were not cheap (but understandably so), but I really did want it and would've regretted not having it. I try to put it to good use now by stamping important calendar dates with them. They are so cute and detailed so I'm happy, haha.