Hmm... Yes... Sometimes trying to change someone isn't the best way to help them. It's difficult though, if they think that's the right thing to do.
And well... You know she's done the same thing to many people in the past (including me) and you were very close to her, so I understand if you get upset but... Don't let it get to you too much.
As you said, I think it's her that's changed. I don't think I even know her anymore; I certainly wouldn't recognise her if I saw he in the street. But in a more fundamental way, she's not the same person we were at school with
