I'm so sorry about your Saya.

Ah, before my boyfriend and I started dating, we watched the Korean movie, Old Boy. It was very awkward when the sex started. Even worse when we found out the twist. But at least it was sort of integral to the plot?

I went and just spoiled myself on the movie by searching for it to see what you were talking about.


Yeah, definitely plot-relevant! I'm not sure I could watch it, but it sounds powerful.

That's so sad. I'm so sorry to hear that.

I like that the rape wasn't romanticized, then. Was it the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo? My friend thought it was too much but I thought they did a good job with avoiding making it super vulgar and traumatizing.

Yeah, and on one hand I think it could have been something else but I guess the twist and the shock value was the entire point of the story.

Haha, and I was trying so hard not to spoil it. I love spoilers but I know not everyone does. My boyfriend hates it. And I don't see the point because a) he forgets it by the time he sees the movie and b) for someone who hates spoilers he keeps asking for it.

Yeah, it wasn't like romanticized thing like the way they do with Hollywood films, either, with all the wistful sighs and eyes and dimmed lights. It was dirty and sloppy like how I imagine real thing might be like.

And lol I just got the Hallowe'en Mouth. I was wondering where everyone was getting the recoloured Cat Woman Mouth.

Spoilers are very good things, for me. >.< I'm not fond of surprises.

But unlike you, Moi, I have to search them out. I wish I had that gift to always see them!

condoms that women use instead of men is a pretty recent thing, isn't it? I remember reading a kickstarter for one design of them, and kickstarter is pretty new, so it made me think that. How long have they been around for?

Whoa, that sounds pretty cool. Just looked it up on Netflix. Not on Canadian one, at least. Too bad.

Haha, that's such an odd superpower -- automatically locating spoilers.

That is ridiculous. What a dumb. Vagina dentata. It's a wonderful phrase. Yeah. Have you seen Teeth? Though I think the spiked thing isn't really all that effective, though. I don't think it's very hard? So it wouldn't be uncomfortable up there? So it wouldn't be too painful. I've actually got a phobia of using that thing and someone who tries to rape me gets angry and turns it inside out and use it against me.

I like spoilers, too. I don't mind surprises, but I like to know how things turn out and trying to spot foreshadowing. And also detective stories. Knowing whodunit and trying to spot all the evidences is fun. So I like to watch and read things multiple times.

From what I can see of wikipedia, the first one was invented in late 2000? But none of them are in commercial production. Female condoms, which are for consensual sex, apparently went into production in 2007 but only FDA approved in 2009.

Oh, man. It reminds me of this scene from a manga called Fire Punch where this girl almost gets gang-raped and so another girl kills all the men involved. Then their commander comes out and goes to fight her for killing his "innocent" subordinates. She points out that they were trying to rape a girl and he says that impregnating a woman is a holy rite and the right and duty of man and it can never be a crime regardless of the circumstances. The girl killed him, too. Good riddance.

I'm pretty sure accidental sex is a genre of porn.
But yes, a lot harder to do in real life. But yeah. Rape-culture. Man breaks into woman's house and rapes her in the middle of the night? What was she wearing? (I went to a Rape Survivor's event at my school once and read some stories of some women. This was a question asked by the police when she went to report the incident, asked right after she told him that he climbed into her bed. It made me so mad.).

EDIT: Oh, Moi, I keep forgetting to tell you. I had a dream a few nights ago and you were in it. And I also think you might get a kick out of the dream, too. We were at this old house that they were demolishing or rebuilding or something so there were tools everywhere. I was inside the house and you were outside and we were talking. There were all these birds and small animals around outside with you but they looked oddly creepy. So I took a closer look at them and saw that their heads were moving weird, like the scalp under their fur and feathers had cracked into plates and they were moving. Then a worm poked out from between the cracked plates of their skulls out of their fur and feathers. So zombie animals? Then you got up all of a sudden and grabbed a knife or an ax and started swinging it around trying to crack open the window to get at me and I knew you were infected, too. So I retreated further into the house and got up on the roof to hide from you and tried to call 911 but I kept getting their answering machine? And people were trying to restrain you but not hurt you because for some reason, you were 16. I woke up trying to get a hold of 911.

Haha, sounds like a Japanese monster.

So, what, women are supposed to wear bikinis only inside their houses?

What? What does jeans have anything to do with anything? There are plenty of baggy pants made of denim. That's so odd.

Yeah... the fuck? That's so odd. People's got weird expectations for little girls. Like, are they supposed to be the beacons of moralities or something? They're just kids. You can't put that much pressure on them. I mean, if you aren't even going to put the pressure of controlling one's urges on rapists, then you can't expect the little girls to control their urges for them.

Oh man, let me know when you remember! That's so awesome.

I've had dream police arrest me when I went up to them for help. And I think my biggest worry then was that I was going to be sitting duck for my pursuers in jail.