Avatar Shopping Community Knuffel Quests Donate My Account Help

Jump to:

   [ 283 posts ] 
How was your day?
Amazing! Let me tell you about it...  10%  [ 8 ]
It was... eh. Here's why...  26%  [ 20 ]
Awful! Get a load of this...  14%  [ 11 ]
Enough about me, tell me about you!  49%  [ 38 ]
Total votes : 77
 Post subject: Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Apr 7th, '18, 22:45    


February

Joined: Jun 24th, '08, 20:19
Posts: 388
Hugs: 19765
Mood: Formerly Februarybabe!
Location: Land of Engs
Welcome Addicay! <3 I love the idea of a motivational hang out also. I noticed how dwelling on the darker stuff in life seems to just ruin my day for me, so even though it's good for me to talk it out, I still need a pick-up at the end. And I would love to help others with that too!
So yes, motivation and sharing time, haha.

That sounds like a really good day to be honest. Family time, productivity with the cleaning, and relaxation at the end <3
My boyfriend and I live with my parents also! Glad there are others out there who are doing the same, haha.
Ahaha, Mem is right though, what privacy? xD We have our own space, luckily, two rooms at the other end of the house, but it is a huge difference to having our own home :mcheh:

Meags, that makes sense. It's good of you to be considerate of her, even with something you'd like to do. I'm actually currently doing a Business Admin course for my job role as business support apprentice c:
How old is your daughter? :qh:
I do not have children but I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. We would like kids one day. <3

(0) (0)

I haven't been on KofK for a long while. Forgive my rustiness!


♥Group Therapy:♥
♥The Hangout for the Overly Share-y.♥


Currently questing: Swan Queen Pet, Snow Queen Robe, Cherubim Hair, Cherubim Eyes, Cherubim Upper Wings, and a Water Gen 16 Knuffel. Please send a message if you are selling! <3


    Top
 Post subject: Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Apr 8th, '18, 00:25    


Meags

Joined: Aug 27th, '12, 17:03
Posts: 1725
Hugs: 33659
Location: In a book
Awww, that was such a sweet welcome, February! Being encouraging and supportive here on Kofk is such a must! People do seem to dwell on the dark stuff. It's nice to be able to come on here for a pick-me-up.

My little one is 3. She just turned 3 last month. What a precious age! She is so full of awe and wonder. I just enjoy simply talking to her when I am able. Fighting for shared custody at the moment. Not very pleasant. Her dad is not being very cooperative. But he'll just have to come around once a judge orders him to. He is restricting my access at the moment. It is difficult to even get a hold of him. Hoping that I will be able to spend some much-needed time with her tomorrow.

Being in a serious relationship is such work but completely fulfilling and definitely worth it if you are willing to invest the time and effort into it. I have a serious boyfriend also. And we live with one another. No parents. And thankful for that.

I hope y'all are having a groovy night.

(0) (0)


    Top
 Post subject: Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Apr 9th, '18, 11:40    


memoriam

Joined: Feb 14th, '11, 01:50
Posts: 19431
Hugs: 258773
Mood: Mood.
Location: Poland; in my bubble.
We live in an apartment with my grandma. We have the small room, the walls are thin, she walks in sometimes... Besides we always have to hide and keep quiet and calculate if we manage with time until she comes back home. It's annoying and frustrating :mcheh: total turn off. Not to mention her tv is ALWAYS on, and ALWAYS on full volume because she has trouble hearing, and she usually watches the religous channel and we're like aaaah, stahp it already. :mcargh: But it's still the best solution for now. Better than renting something.

(0) (0)
In need of materials? Go to ~Memoriam's~
Free avatar/room items & knuffels!
Make the ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂ with me!


Dec 21st/22nd 2016, R.I.P. Tila. We'll miss you, you cuddly little stinker <3
Dec 7th 2019, R.I.P. Candy. I'm sorry, my sweet little rumball...
Jan 8th 2020, R.I.P. Cotton. Farewell my golden adventurer </3
May 15th 2021, R.I.P. Kreska. I love you, angel...
Feb 3rd 2022, R.I.P. Kropka. Goodbye, my *starshine*
Nov 27th 2022, R.I.P. Strzałka. You will be missed, lazy ball.
Jan 5th 2023, R.I.P. Iskra. Spark until the end.
Jan 26th 2024, R.I.P. Mocha. You can fool around now, baby <3
Feb 22nd 2024, R.I.P. Latte. Now you are truly a free spirit...


    Top
 Post subject: Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Apr 24th, '18, 09:54    


memoriam

Joined: Feb 14th, '11, 01:50
Posts: 19431
Hugs: 258773
Mood: Mood.
Location: Poland; in my bubble.
Knock, knock, someone in here? :mcconf: :mcconf:

(0) (0)
In need of materials? Go to ~Memoriam's~
Free avatar/room items & knuffels!
Make the ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂ with me!


Dec 21st/22nd 2016, R.I.P. Tila. We'll miss you, you cuddly little stinker <3
Dec 7th 2019, R.I.P. Candy. I'm sorry, my sweet little rumball...
Jan 8th 2020, R.I.P. Cotton. Farewell my golden adventurer </3
May 15th 2021, R.I.P. Kreska. I love you, angel...
Feb 3rd 2022, R.I.P. Kropka. Goodbye, my *starshine*
Nov 27th 2022, R.I.P. Strzałka. You will be missed, lazy ball.
Jan 5th 2023, R.I.P. Iskra. Spark until the end.
Jan 26th 2024, R.I.P. Mocha. You can fool around now, baby <3
Feb 22nd 2024, R.I.P. Latte. Now you are truly a free spirit...


    Top
 Post subject: Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Apr 28th, '18, 02:54    


Moi

Joined: Jun 17th, '08, 21:48
Posts: 54000
Hugs: 513689
Mood: Know you're not alone.
Website: http://seppukuaddict.deviantart.com/
Location: \8u/

I'm very angry xD
I hope it is okay to vent.

I live with my sister and my aunt helps take care of both of us.
I turn 30 in October.
My aunt constantly cusses at us and screams and treats me like I'm a 2 year old.
And when I try to scold my sister for doing something wrong, my aunt says "Quit bickering!" like we're just two little kids arguing with each other.
No matter what I do, I'm a CHILD. I can be 65 years old and still be a CHILD.

My aunt will cuss me out and be completely bitchy and then she'll say "You're so ungrateful! I constantly cook food for you and give you stuff!" if I try to tell her she's a bitch.
So to her, being verbally abusive is okay because she gives me stuff and cooks for me.
Which isn't how abuse works.
You don't get to abuse someone and say it's fine because you give them gifts.

My aunt and sister always yell at me or tell me to shut up or scoff and roll their eyes when I try to talk to them.
But when I don't want to do something for them for valid reasons, I'm just a huge selfish bitch.
And I'm so disrespectful and should always feel bad.
But neither of them respect ME.
I don't ask for a lot in my life.
I want to tell them a story or a joke or something meaningful and just get told to shut up or get scoffed at and eye rolls.
Like I'm useless, I'm a waste of time, I'm only good when they can use me for something.

The other day, I was in a lot of physical pain and I didn't want to walk my sister to a sno-cone place.
So since I didn't want to, my aunt turned into a huge bitch and my sister was bitchy and my aunt said "Well, next time SHE wants something for US we'll just say NO!"
Really, bitch? REALLY? You're a shitty person and you're teaching my sister to be shitty too.

So in short, I don't get any respect and I'm so ungrateful and disrespectful for getting angry when they treat me like shit >__>

(0) (0)
Image

"I'll miss the winter
A world of fragile things
Look for me in the white forest
Hiding in a hollow tree (come find me)
I know you hear me,
I can taste it in your tears."



    Top
 Post subject: Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Apr 28th, '18, 18:16    


memoriam

Joined: Feb 14th, '11, 01:50
Posts: 19431
Hugs: 258773
Mood: Mood.
Location: Poland; in my bubble.
Aww, Moi, I'm sorry, that's horrible how they treat you and how your aunt teaches your sister all that :mcsad: *hugs*
What do your parents think about it?

(0) (0)
In need of materials? Go to ~Memoriam's~
Free avatar/room items & knuffels!
Make the ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂ with me!


Dec 21st/22nd 2016, R.I.P. Tila. We'll miss you, you cuddly little stinker <3
Dec 7th 2019, R.I.P. Candy. I'm sorry, my sweet little rumball...
Jan 8th 2020, R.I.P. Cotton. Farewell my golden adventurer </3
May 15th 2021, R.I.P. Kreska. I love you, angel...
Feb 3rd 2022, R.I.P. Kropka. Goodbye, my *starshine*
Nov 27th 2022, R.I.P. Strzałka. You will be missed, lazy ball.
Jan 5th 2023, R.I.P. Iskra. Spark until the end.
Jan 26th 2024, R.I.P. Mocha. You can fool around now, baby <3
Feb 22nd 2024, R.I.P. Latte. Now you are truly a free spirit...


    Top
 Post subject: Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Jan 1st, '19, 15:48    


February

Joined: Jun 24th, '08, 20:19
Posts: 388
Hugs: 19765
Mood: Formerly Februarybabe!
Location: Land of Engs
I am determined that 2019 is going to be a good year.
I know that means I will have to work hard because I am the only one responsible for whether it's a good or bad year... but feeling optimistic.
I want to kick ass this year <3

(1) (0)

I haven't been on KofK for a long while. Forgive my rustiness!


♥Group Therapy:♥
♥The Hangout for the Overly Share-y.♥


Currently questing: Swan Queen Pet, Snow Queen Robe, Cherubim Hair, Cherubim Eyes, Cherubim Upper Wings, and a Water Gen 16 Knuffel. Please send a message if you are selling! <3


    Top
 Post subject: Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Jan 1st, '19, 21:22    


memoriam

Joined: Feb 14th, '11, 01:50
Posts: 19431
Hugs: 258773
Mood: Mood.
Location: Poland; in my bubble.
I hope this comes true for you, Feb :qh:
And welcome back, btw! *throws confetti rain* How are you?

(0) (0)
In need of materials? Go to ~Memoriam's~
Free avatar/room items & knuffels!
Make the ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂ with me!


Dec 21st/22nd 2016, R.I.P. Tila. We'll miss you, you cuddly little stinker <3
Dec 7th 2019, R.I.P. Candy. I'm sorry, my sweet little rumball...
Jan 8th 2020, R.I.P. Cotton. Farewell my golden adventurer </3
May 15th 2021, R.I.P. Kreska. I love you, angel...
Feb 3rd 2022, R.I.P. Kropka. Goodbye, my *starshine*
Nov 27th 2022, R.I.P. Strzałka. You will be missed, lazy ball.
Jan 5th 2023, R.I.P. Iskra. Spark until the end.
Jan 26th 2024, R.I.P. Mocha. You can fool around now, baby <3
Feb 22nd 2024, R.I.P. Latte. Now you are truly a free spirit...


    Top
 Post subject: Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Jan 2nd, '19, 00:51    


February

Joined: Jun 24th, '08, 20:19
Posts: 388
Hugs: 19765
Mood: Formerly Februarybabe!
Location: Land of Engs
Hi lovely! <3
I'm okay! Moved out so away from my mother, who had become the biggest source of conflict in my life. Currently unemployed since I finished my apprenticeship and moved across country, but fingers crossed that fixes soon.

At the moment we are staying with my boyfriend's parents. Everyone is very friendly! The only issue I have is that I really value my isolation and space and they say goodnight through the door every day and stuff, which is peculiar to me :mcdead:

How are things with you? Do you feel like this year will be different to the last?

(0) (0)

I haven't been on KofK for a long while. Forgive my rustiness!


♥Group Therapy:♥
♥The Hangout for the Overly Share-y.♥


Currently questing: Swan Queen Pet, Snow Queen Robe, Cherubim Hair, Cherubim Eyes, Cherubim Upper Wings, and a Water Gen 16 Knuffel. Please send a message if you are selling! <3


    Top
 Post subject: Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Jan 2nd, '19, 03:49    


MissNikki

Joined: Jun 25th, '18, 02:53
Posts: 4890
Hugs: 119635

You have hugged MissNikki!


Mood: Tired. Always tired.
Website: https://kofk.de/index.php?p=feed&id=w5Grapeseed
Location: BC, Canada
So glad to have found this lovely thread. I have issues with depression and anxiety and need to vent often, so this can be a new place to do it. LoL :qlov: :qh: Hello all!

(0) (0)


    Top
Display posts from previous:   Sort by  
   [ 283 posts ] 

You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum

Username:

Password:


I forgot my password

Avatar







It is currently Jun 16th, '25, 16:55
All times are UTC+02:00