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Our family has a fair number of traditions for nearly all of them.
Prior to new year's we do things like do a huge deep-cleaning and pick out some stuff to donate, and choose out things that we want to keep but need fixing.
Then on the New Year's itself there's a feast, and a bunch of music with specific instruments.
For the next ten days we make personal contact with everyone in our family, and with friends, and try and make sure our relationships are in order.
We fix the things that we pulled out as projects, and go down to some natural source of flowing water if at all possible (one year we were in a dry area and ended up using a cliffside instead) for a short ceremony.
There are special prayers we only say this time of year.
And everyone gets one new item of clothing. A new pair of shoes or a set of undergarments or socks or a replacement winter coat or whatever is on their list as the thing they need most.
We check that our affairs are in order, and do any updates that need to be taken care of (like updating wills or whatever).
One of the ten days we go and tend family graves if any are nearby, and if there aren't we try and tend what look like might be abandoned graves at a public cemetery instead. (Which of the 10 days that happens on varies year to year).
Then on the 10th day there's an all-day ceremony thing, we fast for it and do a LOT of singing and try and make contact with everyone who matters in our lives. We read out the names of our dead family members that anyone still alive remembers personally (knew/had contact with) and do a short memorial because they should not be forgotten. Afterwards (technically the 11th day) there's usually a smallish feast to show 'yay we survived, both this day of observance and the whole last year', and as a sign of hope for good things of the year to come.
Then there's that short break until the full moon, which starts the harvest festival. We camp outside for it, decorating with things of natural beauty which we found, and each morning there's a prayer and a song and you go outside to look in all directions and... I have to back up.
So all the previous year, from last harvest festival to this, everyone collects interesting things that they find. And you get out that collection to use now.
Anyhow.
Each morning, you take some of the things you found in the previous year and you go out somewhere public and use it to make the area prettier.
Sometime during the day, you also go pick something that you either will eat that day or preserve for later, and pick something that you will gift to someone else to eat.
Each day is kind of a scavenger hunt for guests, the goal is to have a guest over for a meal of as many of the varying categories as you can get over the week. A teacher, a newly-wed, a traveler/visitor to your area, one of your neighbors, a grandparent, a public service worker of some kind (separate from the teacher), someone who is ill (for that one, you can take the food to them), someone who is homeless, and someone who was in the military (or in a war but not in military). There's other stuff, too, but those are the big ones. (Well, you also try and get your actual harvest in, but that's kind of a, when is your harvest actually? So it's a little separate from the holiday now.
The eighth day, there's special songs and everyone says what they're grateful for, in the physical world around them. (Not like, "yay for my family" but, "There's an owl who lives five trees to the north of that dead-end street sign and I'm happy I can hear it at night". That kind of thing. Specific stuff that's nothing to do with people)
Okay this is a HUGE wall of text.
TL:DR = yes we have stuff we do.
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