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 Post subject: Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Jul 17th, '19, 02:17    


Moi

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Yup. Stolenass Valor 8u
My mom recently joined Instagram and she's been having these guys message her, saying they're in the military or were in the military and are complete fakes.
One even stole a picture from this real military man and edited in a happy birthday message to my mom >__>
Like that's some fucking next level scamming 8u

Oh, shit I know what you're talking about. I've been called lazy because I'm disabled and can't hold down a job at this point. I just lie around and do nothing and just mooch off of people. I'm not lazy. I will break my back doing yardwork and doing things like helping people and cooking for my sister and such. But nope I'm big fat laaaaaaaazy bitch 8u
And I get treated and talked down to like I'm a kid from older relatives.
They even scold me like I'm 5 years old and bickering with my 12 year old sister when I'm actually scolding her and teaching her not to do things >__>
My aunt literally told me she'd love for us to go somewhere, but wanted to wait until my mom came home so there'd be at least two adults. I'm 30. >__>

I'm sorry you have to put up with that. I have seen people blow money on junk then say "I never have money \uB/"
Like I'm a cheapass but I don't spend much on stuff I don't need.
Like I WANT a lot of things, but I don't need them so I don't buy them 8u
And it drives my family nuts u8

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 Post subject: Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Jul 17th, '19, 05:11    


Kitalpha Hart

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Oof, hope she's reporting them

If your disability is keeping you from holding a job, that's not your fault. Someone who has to use a wheelchair isn't gonna be able to handle a job that requires running up and down stairs. Calling them lazy because they cannot is dumb
Oh, sensory overload causes by loud noises so you need to work somewhere quiet? Somehow that's snowflaking or some sort of bullshit

And what is it with older related people always seeing you as a little kid? Are they incapable of realizing that you haven't grown up? Like Ralphie's aunt keeps insisting he's a toddler aged girl????

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 Post subject: Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Jul 17th, '19, 05:42    


Lady River

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I've been in a spendy mood lately but I still try not to overspend.

I hate it when family doesn't get it.

My brother struggles with his back and a few mental health issues. He has had a few jobs over the years but iono I guess they don't like him or something? so he doesn't always have them for like more than a few years..

Anyway mum likes to get his help for more manly things that mum can't do, cause dad passed away in 2011 (it was years ago). But when he does help it takes ages to do, cause of his back and overheating. I admit he does need to lose a lot of weight but mum thinks he's being lazy half the time (he does get lazy but if his back is overheating and sore.. bit hard to do things right?).


So mum gives him unhelpful advice. And I think it makes his mental health a bit worse. :(



I look younger than I am so I think sometimes I still get some relatives who think I'm under 18. That said I love peoples reactions when they realise I'm 28. Although one time, at tafe I thought a friend was older than me.. turns out he's 24. It was my turn to be shocked.

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 Post subject: Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Jul 19th, '19, 01:51    


Moi

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Yup, she's reporting them and calling them fakers to their faces.
She had felt bad about blocking the guy that sent her the birthday messages, so she looked him up on Facebook and tried to friend him and he said he had no idea who she was and said his FB had been hacked and people were using his photos.
He actually is a military man and he's like...some model for a gym or something.
Don't really remember xD
I made my mom start watching the series "Catfish" 8u

Yeah, my depression is bad, but my anxiety is what keeps me from doing anything.
Like sometimes I have an anxiety attack and I have to leave.
I don't think I could keep a job long since I'd have constant anxiety attacks or just not go in xD
That's how I failed highschool and decided to drop out.
I missed so many days and so much work because I didn't want to go back.
I'd love to make a living off selling art, but I don't have that many followers compared to the big time art sellers.

I guess because they were around when I was a kid and so they'll forever just see me as a kid.
I know my mom's sad I'll always be her little girl.
But my grandpa treated my mom like she was a kid too so u8

People need to realize that not everyone is like them and people have different levels of things they can handle.
I have a higher pain tolerance than others, but I'm not going to mock you if you're hurting from something that doesn't hurt for me.
Because I know not everyone is like me and they feel pain differently than I do.

I'm extremely out of shape and have a bad back. I'm slower than others and sometimes my back hurts and I can't do things. All I get is "Hurry up!" when I'm trying my hardest and I just get scoffs when I say my back hurts.
Like this one day I kept leaning against the wall because my back was killing me and my aunt asked what I was doing and I said my back hurt and she rolled her eyes and scoffed at me.

People hurt others more than they realize. I've been told so much negative things about me that I had nearly no self-esteem most of my life.
Then it's my own fault because I should have pride.
It's kinda hard to like yourself when people call you ugly, fat, lazy, stupid, etc u8

I look younger too, so I could forgive people that didn't know. My family knows and they just don't care enough, I guess.
Like my sister hit me earlier, and I told her "Don't ever hit me there." and my mom told us to stop fighting.
Or when my sister does something and I say "You don't need to do that." and my aunt tells us to stop bickering.
But when they do the SAME thing I do - it's not bickering.
Because they're adults.





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 Post subject: Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Jul 20th, '19, 04:49    


light_sucks

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People are always talking down to me. Until they see me practically crying from pain. Then I think it finally gets through their thick skulls that I'm not actually faking.

Moi, you could totally get big with art. You draw so often. You just need to share it more. Do you have a twitter? Art is pretty popular on there.

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 Post subject: Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Jul 20th, '19, 05:55    


Lady River

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mm people just don't get it.

That's why I share a lot of things on fb about like anxiety, depression or autism that like I get, mostly memes of symptoms.

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 Post subject: Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Jul 20th, '19, 06:00    


light_sucks

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I try to do the same. Share the knowledge! Woohoo!

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 Post subject: Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Jul 22nd, '19, 02:05    


Moi

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So many people in this country don't have empathy.
If someone tells me they're hurting, I'm like "I'm so sorry ;;"
I don't think "You big faker uB<"
I mean, my dad and I are both accident-prone and he's had surgeries and went to physical therapy a lot, so I guess I tend to believe anyone that says they're hurting.

I do have a Twitter and I put some art on there, but not many people have seen them.
I use DA, Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr and this Japanese site called PIXIV 8u
It's not so much putting things out there as it is I can't hardly finish anything,
I will get close to finishing and just quit or take a long break.

Knowledge is power 8U
That's why I try to teach my sister a lot of things they will not teach her in school.

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 Post subject: Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Jul 22nd, '19, 08:29    


light_sucks

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It's true. Lots of people just don't care about others at all.

Lots of people like works in progress.
What's your twitter? I'll retweet your art.

That's also true. It's good to try to teach a kid to seek out knowledge as well.

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 Post subject: Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Jul 22nd, '19, 21:07    


Moi

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It's really shitty because when it's them, then it's a huuuuge issue \8u/

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I don't like kids being forced to learn or believe certain things.
Mostly religion. It's one thing to explore and learn and it's another to just be told what to believe and think xD

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