oh my god monster siblings i relate
my brother closed a drawer on my fingers, took up the bathroom with the dustbin first thing in the morning so that i couldn't change out of my soaked overnight sanitary pad, and choked me as well but because i was the older kid he never got blamed for it. and if i defended myself it was i who had to apologise.
my mom to this day says i was an evil child even while admitting in the same breath that i never started shit and did whatever i did in self-defence. i'm evil but not my brother, apparently