Haha, maybe I should change the name of the hangout to Confetti Libras XD

@Ray: You mean you get lost in the forums? :D

*gently puts Ray in a fish tank*

I hope he'll be able to continue his therapy soon so he'd have an opportunity to talk about this stuff among other things.

@jacob: Haha, I love how we aligned
I get where he comes from. He just really loves you and it's sweet but damn, J needs to acknowledge himself.
I can't recall if he is in therapy? I'm not sure, but there's just this thought in my head XD

@Moi: Horoscopes are tricky. Most of them are very general, because they're for only the Sun signs and astrology is more complicated than that. We're actually made of all 12 signs but in different intensity. There's also moon signs, ascendant signs, planets, houses, lunar nodes, maybe lunar phases. It's pretty crazy when you start reading about it. There's tropical horoscopes and sidereal too, and sometimes people onlyrelate to their tropical horoscopes and some only to their sidereal. It's truly messed up

I'm usually pretty open. But my mom can actually ruin my mood if she's in a bad mental shape and then she calls me to "just talk a little bit" (aka roughly 2 hours) and she's feeding me withher negative energy. So nowadays when I sense she's not feeling great and I know I can't handle it, I try to mix myself out of it XD Sometimes I just tell her that I'm having a lot on my plate rn and I can't handle more.
But it's not to say her feelings aren't valid and she deserves to talk things out with someone anyways. I think keeping too many things to yourself can actually do more harm than good.
I try to bite my tongue when I'm getting frustrated and a little bit passive agressive b ut it's to fight my bad habits and practice self-restraint.

demonajay wrote:sending this message around to see where it's the most active. Is this a ghost town?

You haven't been here for a while, why so suddenly? And well, people live in different time zones and they are now mostly adults with jobs and life so they might answer to posts a little slower but hey, we're active okay? We're trying
Alright, enough with the theater Generally, what jacob said, there are dates and times you can look at, plus you can see them without even entering a thread Usually ones from the first page are recently active, then the rest is a Russian Roulette

memoriam wrote: @jacob: Haha, I love how we aligned
I get where he comes from. He just really loves you and it's sweet but damn, J needs to acknowledge himself.
I can't recall if he is in therapy? I'm not sure, but there's just this thought in my head XD

He was. But he ran out of the free therapy sessions from the government, because apparently you only get so many. Then he started at a place near us that was super expensive, aaaaand the lockdown happened. He looked into doing it online but nothing really came of it. I do want him to go back, but it seems like it's too hard right now with his changeable work schedule as well.

@jacob: Oh, so he's in the same kind of wagon as Ash is, that sucks Let's hope things will get better and they will be able to continue their therapies.
Ash doesn't often talk to me about his feelings very openly either. It's like "I'm a grown up, I can deal with it myself and you stay away from my head, woman ". It's madness, the way they function, either pushing all feelings away or not talking about them with anyone. They only make things worse. I really hope that mentality will dissipate in the society. There's always the "you're the man in the house now" and "be a big boy", "man up" and all that shit. And then everybody's like "why is my husband/boyfriend/son emotionally unavailable?"

I'm sorry, I had to rant a little bit. I feel that injustice and I've triggered myself I guess.


@Moi: I've never heard anyone say that Libra is made to fit everyone. And I don't think it would. If it would fit everyone then we wouldn't have 12 zodiac signs, would we? XD Besides,every person is different, even within one sign, so I'm sorry, but that "it fits everyone" argument is silly to me
Also, althoughIhave a lot of Libra in me I'm not a 100% Libra, I often felt like Scorpio was a better fit for me (I sometimes still do, haha), and I'm from the cusp of Libra and Scorpio, so it made sense to me (but I don't think that's how it works, as far as I've read about astrology until now). BUT! My Mars was in Scorpio the day I was born, so perhaps that's why I feel that connection. And it makes a lot of sense with my anger issues and what not XD
I think I did the personality test twice and both times I got INFJ but sometimes I wonder if maybe I'm an INFP or something. Just generally mistyped, because you answer the questions with your own perception of yourself, so maybe the results are false? Idk. Do you know Frank James on Youtube? He's got some cool content about the Meyers-Briggs Personality Types both nitty-gritty more scientify and then there's comedy XD

Oh, yeah, I know. My bff also didn't want to talk about stuff when she was dealing with depression, anxiety, anorexia and self-harm and what not. I'd find some fresh scars and I'd be like "so? you wanna tell me something? Why didn't you call me when something bad happened, you can call me any time, just don't do it to yourself ". Shit was hard.


Okay, I'm sure everybody and their mother on this forum noticed I'm missing spaces between words hella often. I guess I spend too little time on my personal laptop and I can't get used to the keyboard here. I press the space button too lightly and then I see combined words everywhere in my posts, it annoys the hell out of me XD

Moi-XD It happened so fast I wasn't for sure. Poor fake cat.

That's very selfless of you. I think it's healthy and necessary to vent sometimes. I have to sometimes or I'll blow up. XD








mem-No, just in life lately. XD

*looks around at her new home and settles in to read a book* I just realized the book would get wet. XD

Therapy can work miracles with the right therapist. Does he have a good one? I've always had a hard time finding one I like. I need them to give me good feedback and so many of them just want to listen and not tell you what they think. I like to have my thoughts and feelings validated and I want them to give me good advice. Those qualities have been surprisingly hard to find for me. :/







O.o *pinches self* I think I'm still alive.

@Moi: Haha, that's also the thing that doesn't fit me. I like being around a certain kind of people but not for too long. I'm a huge introvert. And anxiety makes it worse.

Eyy, Scorpio high-five to her! Scorpio gets such a bad reputation XD

If you know your birth time you can see your birth chart online, for example here: https://horoscopes.astro-seek.com/birth ... ope-online. I just tested it, and even if you don't know the exact time of your birth down to minutes, you can put in the hour and the planets should be in correct positions for you. Even if you don't know your time of birth at all you can check the Unknown time checkbox and still planets should be in correct positions, but you won't find out your Ascendant (Rising) sign :) Oh, and in case you were born in a tiny village/town that won't be present in the "Birth city" tab, you can put the nearest bigger town/city from your place of birth. But some small locations are present, I was very surprised checking my grandparents' charts and their small town were there, I wa slike "what is this witchcraft?! ". And you can make multiple charts to check out why your family is messed up they way they are. It was so fun to look at all that shit with my mom, it took us days and we didn't even look through everything and everyone xD
LOL, While testing this birth chart calculator I noticed that both my Mars and Mercury are in Scorpio XD

You thought you'd get Slytherin, didn't you?

I hope you give yourself the same right to vent/let things out

@Ray: Well, life's been insane on too many levels for at least a year nnow, so nobody can blame you But tbh, I've been confused with life before the world went crazy with the extermination of the human population so... XD

I would think she's good. From what he was telling me he enjoyed his sessions with her before the pandemic. Although I'm not really sure what to make of "we just talk and it's neat, she's fun to talk to, sometimes there's nothing I want to talk about so we just talk and laugh about stuff, it's cool" But other times he would tell me stuff like "I told her my backstory and she cried more than I did" or "I just found out I'm depressed and nothing makes me happy and I have no idea what to do about it". So I'm guessing they're taking things slow? I'm not sure, but he seems genuinely happy with that therapist and I've seen many improvements since he started the therapy so I'll take it as a positive sign taht they connected and he's in good hands.

I know the anxiety of finding the right therapist. Me previous one was a very kind guy but sometimes I felt he wasn't listening to me and kept on moving back to topics I came with at the beginning although something more important was happening at hand. My current therapist specializes in working with HSPs and I can't even describe how amazing she is. But it's worth remembering that if you don't click with your therapist, then you don't and you can always say it doesn't work for you and you need somebody else. Although the thought itself triggers my anxiety and I don't even have to change my therapist XD