I've noticed that a lot of people can't tell they're asking uncomfortable questions.
I can immediately sense the atmosphere change xD
I saw this tv show where this woman was like
Woman: So where's your family 8u
Man: ......They're dead...
Woman: Oh, I'm sorry! When did they die!? How'd it happen!? What were they like!?
Man: .........
Me: Lady, he clearly doesn't like you asking him this stuff so STOP \>8u/
I've noticed that when I don't want to answer stuff, I tend to be a smartass in response...