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Re: The ₡a$i₦o

Posted: Dec 9th, '18, 03:52
by Akili Li
Kindness is a strangely underrated trait, because it is so valued when found. It makes such a difference.

You helped me, too, when I first joined. Speaking of kindness. I still have fun playing with the winter mug you gifted to me, my first week on KofK! I didn't know then that it was a treasure trove item. I just had fun with it.

Re: The ₡a$i₦o

Posted: Dec 13th, '18, 00:29
by Moi

I think I remember that. I hope that doesn't upset you. I have issues remembering a lot of things these days. I'll be in the middle of telling a story and forget what I was saying xD;

I like to be nice to most people. Unless I see them being an asshole or if they're one to me, I try to be nice to people.
People battle things others don't see.
I'll never forget this story about a cashier being distracted and this customer got annoyed that it was taking so long and bitched at them.
Turned out their....Mom, I think had committed suicide earlier in the day.
They still went into work eventhough their mom was dead.
And the customer yelled at them, not knowing what was wrong.

If someone seems annoyed, I often think they're just having a bad day.
And I'll let it slide because I think they're normally not like that and I don't want to make it worse.

Re: The ₡a$i₦o

Posted: Dec 13th, '18, 02:21
by Sunlight
I've also alarmed my parents with my laughing, because they thought I was crying.

I also can't talk while I'm crying because it'll make me cry harder. It's better to talk about something else so that I calm down, if I talk at all.

I wasn't really all that close to Lil but I'm sad I won't see new avatars from her. She always made such intricate, beautiful avatars.

You're a good person, Moi. I find it hard not to take things personally when people act annoyed.

Re: The ₡a$i₦o

Posted: Dec 13th, '18, 02:37
by Moi

Her avatars and her knuffel ;;
I've been wondering if Firn knows.
Aki told me to just post about Chaos in her thread, but I don't know.
I haven't talked to Firn in a long time.

I try to be an understanding person. Key word is TRY.
8u

Re: The ₡a$i₦o

Posted: Dec 13th, '18, 04:54
by Sunlight
I think that might be a good way to start a new conversation with her, then. I think it's better if you talk to Firn than me, since I really didn't know Lil all that much.

Hey, at least you try! I can only do it once I'm away and calmed down... and someone makes me. lol

Re: The ₡a$i₦o

Posted: Dec 13th, '18, 21:38
by Moi

I kinda feel weird just going "Hey, Firn, we haven't talked in a while btw Chaos is dead 8u"
I mean I felt better telling you because we talk recently xD;

I really wish I didn't have such a bad temper.
I've held my tongue so much because I didn't want to argue or fight.
It's not healthy to do that. Just bottle it up. So I have a lot of anger inside me that just comes out randomly xD

Re: The ₡a$i₦o

Posted: Dec 14th, '18, 11:34
by Sunlight
Yeah, that does sound awkward. But I haven't really talk-talked with Firn in... well, ever. I post things about bots and such but we've never really chatted.

Oh, me too. But apparently just letting anger come out isn't healthy, either. Apparently the healthiest way is to put a positive spin on things or look at things more logically, like how you do it with thinking maybe the person's had a bad day and it's not necessarily that they were just being a prick.

Re: The ₡a$i₦o

Posted: Dec 14th, '18, 22:55
by Moi

I let her know 8u

No, it's not good either. That's why I want a punching bag.
All I need is medication, therapy and punching bag 8D

Seriously, though. I need to go see my therapist.
I only go when I need to and I need to.
But it'll have to be after December.

Re: The ₡a$i₦o

Posted: Dec 17th, '18, 06:36
by Akili Li
I hope you can hold out until then, Moi.

Poor Firn, she builds this lovely community for us and then we're all afraid to talk to her...

Re: The ₡a$i₦o

Posted: Dec 18th, '18, 00:26
by Moi

I know she's busy a lot and I don't think she likes random PMs.

We just had two dogs run up into our yard and bark.
One was a small dog.
I know all dogs can bite, but it tickles me when little dogs bark like they're big, scary dogs 8u