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Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Sep 7th, '17, 14:26
by Lady River
soo uh because I don't feel like discussing contraception and that stuff, what's new with everyone? or not new...?
I'm still saving for glasses. I'm reconsidering getting the blue filter and just maybe using apps for that. Only because I realised, I'm not sure there's a lot of research into this blue light and how it affects our eyes. When I say that I mean like full on research, with it published into scientific journals etc.
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Sep 7th, '17, 14:55
by jacobgrey
I kinda don't want kids right now but also do because J's sister has the cutest kids and every time I see him with them I get a real all-over twinge rofl. So I guess I'm the opposite because knowing people with kids and spending time with kids makes me want them more XD
Nothing much is new with me. J is stressing about money and I am using my super saving skills that I learned before to sort everything out and calm him down~ *feels useful*
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Sep 7th, '17, 14:59
by Lady River
I think the more I see kids/teens/toddlers/etc the more I don't want them haha
I just want a cat tbh or a very cat like and cute dog.
ooh money stress isn't fun :(
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Sep 7th, '17, 17:09
by memoriam
With me it depends: if the kid/toddler is cute for me, I'll want kids even more. If the kid isn't cute for me then I try to position myself in the parent's position and wonder if I'm able to manage QwQ
But generally I want kids...

If not, I'll be breeding rats/cats/dogs/whatever-thats-cute-and-fluffy
Fire is in the thread! OMG, hi! *confetti rain*
Also y'all, prepare yourselves...
I defended my thesis today! *hits the golden buzzer*
⁂*GOLDEN CONFETTI RAIN*⁂
And that's despite that:
1. the other review was uploaded at 00:15 at night and I only read it at work,
2. After I finished, randomly the police came and I had my hands full,
3. They left 5 minutes before I had to go out of the office (hungry, should go to a toilet, whatever)
4. I don't think I really had good answers, because I really had no idea what I was doing or what I was supposed to say on the exam and I wanted to cry really badly
But I did iiiiiit
Its weird, I'm happier about it on KOfk than IRL... IRL I still feel like there's something wrong. Maybe because tomorrow I have to testify to another police -.-
And I fucked up with the diplomma. I said I didn't have any photo, and was sure I had some at home. But then I checked my wallet, and there it was... *facepalm* I could've already gotten my diplomma, because the lady said they have it for a long while since I submitted my thesis very early

But hey, I'll go there on Tuesday then ;>.>
#gomem #killmeplz #confettirain #goldenconfettirain
*throws a party in the thread* o3o
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Sep 7th, '17, 17:21
by jacobgrey
memoriam wrote:
⁂*GOLDEN CONFETTI RAIN*⁂
Boosting for truth lol
YAY well done! Hopefully the police thing won't be too bad. You did iiiiiit
I don't think the money stress will be too bad, he thought it was a £5k problem and I already did some simple maths and saw it's only a £1,5k problem. So I'm sure once I look into things fully I can reduce it even further, and then it won't be a problem at all, really. He just got all stressed about it cuz he wants to deal with things on his own but he doesn't have time with long working hours to really consider things properly.
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Sep 7th, '17, 17:36
by memoriam
Haha, thank you jacob
After sitting half of the day with police today, and after dealing with the exam afterwards, I think maybe I'll do fine with the police interrogation tomorrow. At least I won't get any grade for that, so that's cheering me up a bit XD
After they said they give me the degree, the professors were all like "oo, are you sure you don't want to continue the studies? bachelor's degree is really nothing and we see huge potential in you after reading your paper blablablah"... my lips: I'll reconsider it :) my brain: nopenopenopenopenopenopenopenope, lol nope, don't even start, nope. It's a nope.
I feel like guys worry about money a lot more than women do. Not as in girls don't care, they just wanna spend, no. But guys tend to panic about how they're responsible for this and they have to manage alone, but they don't know how and, well, they just panic XD
I wish you best of luck with solving the issue, you can do it! o3ob
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Sep 7th, '17, 18:52
by jacobgrey
Lolll maybe one day you'll consider it once the memory of how stressful it was has faded :P
I think I just had my stress point before in the past with panicking and everything. I remember crying in the bath because I didn't know what to do XD from experience now I know just sit down, look at the finances, make a budget, see where you can juggle things around to make it fit. Panicking doesn't help at all because you aren't figuring out what needs to be done. Also I think he feels more responsible for stuff for being a man like you say. I said I would buy the groceries this week (normally he covers those and I do some of the household bills in exchange) and he was all like "No but that's my job to provide for you D:"
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Sep 7th, '17, 19:24
by memoriam
Maybe, but it may be too late then XD
At least now you know how to handle it well

Poor men trapped in cultural cage of "I'm the man here"

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Sep 7th, '17, 23:18
by jacobgrey
Yeah, it's kinda funny XD On the other hand I kinda like it hehe.
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Sep 8th, '17, 03:36
by Lady River
I worry about money.. but because Peter handles the bills atm, he tells me not to worry about it. Only because a) I can't contribute. b) it cause my anxiety to spike a lot.
He just knows how I get.