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Oh, it was no trouble at all doki trust me

and would you mind if i ask you a personal question? I know you lost your doggi some months ago. I just lost mine about 4 days ago and i haven't been dealing the best at all.
I was wondering if you could advice me on how you dealt with the loss?
I miss him everyday and it's hard for me to want to do regular things without breaking down. He meant the world to me, and i never imagine my life without him in it.

If you don't feel comfortable talking here we could pm as well. If that's better

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I don't mind discussing it at all, in fact I'm happy to try and help you grieve <3

I have to start by saying that as a Christian, I believe my baby is in a safe and warm place right now, and that when I pass I'll see him again. That really helped me come to term with the loss of mine.

That said, it is definitely okay to feel the loss as much as you do, cause it is still really really hard to lose your beloved pet ;c

I suggest you try and discover what kind of grieving works best for you, because it can be different for everyone else. For example, do you think it would help you if you were to frame a nice picture of your babs and keep it near you, or not? Would it help if you kept all their toys and such near you or in sight? (me, I kept some of his favourite toys but I don't keep them in sight, I put them in a drawer in my room. I also put some pictures of my baby on my nightstand, and he'll always be my phone background picture)

Its going to take you a while to deal with the loss and give it a place in your life so to speak, you need to give yourself that time to heal. Its ok if you break down and cry, crying is an emotional outlet you needn't hold in ok? <3

I am sorry to hear about your loss Suugar
I have been though that as well when I was younger, my dog got sick and we had to put her down. It broke my sisters and mine hearts, but she is in a better place now! Hopefully with her old owner too (our Nanna!). Nanna had to go into a nursing home and no dogs were allowed, so that's how she lived with me~

Hey doki!
You missed a couple of items in the trade >< So I had to cancel so you can send again (Here is the list again, it was a couple of pages behind where we were chatting >< )
Amethyst robe
Demon chest
Hyades lips gold
Inari Okami set
Lace agate hair
Luna hair midnight blue
Demon chest
Inari set
Moon staff
120k total

Thank you

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@doki

Thank you so much for your kind words and advice. I literally got very teared eyed when i started to read all of it. It means so much that you're willing to talk to me about it considering it hasn't been as long for you either.
It means a lot and it's a huge help for me.

I do like to think that he's up there with his mum and maybe some brothers and sisters. I try to remember that when i most miss him, that he's okay and that we'll see each other one day.

It is extremely hard, specially because everything happened so suddenly.

Thank you for your suggestions, unfortunately because of the nature of how i moved to Australia ( I ran away from home bcs of my parents detrimental treatment of me). I do not have any of his old toys. I know they probably kept them because we had 2 dogs, her name is Diva and she's a toy yorkie. So i am sure she has his toys now. Which makes me happy to think about because i'm sure she misses him like i miss him. So she has those to keep her company.
I talked to my boyfriend about getting framed pictures of coddy so i had those with me and he agreed it would help me too. He also had a really beloved pet named Bella that passed away not that long ago. We plan to put the frames together so that they always have that place in our lives.
I think that will really help me.
He's also my lap top background photo, it's hard to see him in photos. It does hurt. But i'm sure it will help to see him.

I know it's okay to not be okay, my bfs been a very big support since he also knows what it feels like. Thank you for all your advice. Having someone to talk to about helps me so much to being okay.

@rebecca
Thank you for your kind words, i know that he's up there just waiting for me too. Who knows maybe they get to meet each other too and be friends.
That is a nice thought. I'm so sorry about your Nanna, but i am sure she's happy to be reunited with her doggie too!

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646rebecca wrote: Hey doki!
You missed a couple of items in the trade >< So I had to cancel so you can send again (Here is the list again, it was a couple of pages behind where we were chatting >< )
Amethyst robe
Demon chest
Hyades lips gold
Inari Okami set
Lace agate hair
Luna hair midnight blue
Demon chest
Inari set
Moon staff
120k total

Thank you

Resent, sorry for the trouble :'x

@Suugar: Glad to help <3

I'm glad to hear your boyfriend is a good support for you, I hope you can work through your feelings together. You'll eventually get more better days among the bad ones, promise ~

@Suugar, I am sure they are having a blast in the eternal dog park!

@Doki, thank you~~ and no problems
I realised looking over that comment I made says half of the items twice lol

Hello~
I was wondering if the Midnight Rose Top is available?
If so, I'd like to buy it.

I was also wondering if you have anything from my wishlist? Ehehe

Popo, do you still have the Bright Turquoise Longlash Lolita Eyes or Amethyst Skin?

Also do you maybe have anything from my wishlist? (if the list isn't too long to look through

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Eruvandir wrote:Hello~
I was wondering if the Midnight Rose Top is available?
If so, I'd like to buy it.

I was also wondering if you have anything from my wishlist? Ehehe

It is c:

I also have the following off your wishlist:

Carmilla bite
Indian dream tiara light green, mocha & dark pink
Lady Bonheur eyes lilac & red
Los Muertos mouth midnight purple

Julie wrote:Popo, do you still have the Bright Turquoise Longlash Lolita Eyes or Amethyst Skin?

Also do you maybe have anything from my wishlist? (if the list isn't too long to look through )

I have the Amethyst skin left, and the following from your wishlist:

Angel background
Angelica extensions royal purple
Angelica headwings black & cream white
Angelica wings black & cream white
Anthousai forest
Aquarius lips
Argus horns red
Athena wings
Carmilla drink, eyes, hair, mouth & wings
Dahlia eyes midnight blue & red
Dark angel armwarmers & hair
Dark butterfly antenna & eyes
Eardniv lips light pink
Evergreen staff
Good or evil halo, necklace, tail & wings
Halloween '10 zombie eyes
Halloween '14 zombie skin
Hyades eyes gold, lilac & red
Jiniri hair magenta
Jiniri tail fuchsia, blue iris, bright turquoise & midnight blue
Laced bunny lips apricot
Lady bonheur background lilac
Leaf hair, hairclip & tattoo
Light cloak 1
Light gen 12 heart gold
Los Muertos mouth maroon
Lynx ears light sand
Lynx spots light sand & royal purple
Lynx eyes light sand & royal purple
Ma cherie eyes coffee
Mermaid eyes soft pink & midnight blue
Midnight phoenix wings
Midnight rose coat
Oiran eyes midnight blue
Opera hair, gown, mask & house all cream white
Opera house midnight purple
Peacock robe, border, eyes, fan, gloves, tiara & wings
Piratesse hair blue white & topaz, top
Pisces hair emerald green
Rainbow bow, wings & mantra
Ravenhued background black, gray white, midnight blue & mocha
Ravenhued headwings, wings & tail
Shiva arms
Sleeping beauty eyes silver
Stone gargoyle cathedral lime green, midnight blue & mocha
Swan queen hair extension
Takeshita dori hair black & original
Takeshita dori hairclip black & original
Valentine '10 cheek heart
Victorian blush
Water spirit background, skin, eyes, tail, ears, fins, hair
White knight hair original, emerald green & blue iris

Thank you so much for taking the time to check and list all those, I really appreciate it.

Oh my gosh, that's like half my wishlist.

Please let me know if the prices are okay.

I'd love to buy these:

Halloween '10 zombie eyes - 20k
Hyades eyes gold - 45k
Peacock robe, border, gloves, tiara - 50k
Piratesse hair blue white & topaz - 45k
Anthousai forest - 18k
Evergreen staff - 6k
Leaf hairclip - 6k
(190k total)

Could you also put these on hold?

Angelica extensions royal purple - 10k
Angelica headwings black & cream white - 12k
Angelica wings black & cream white - 12k
Argus horns red - 15k
Dahlia eyes red - 20k
Eardniv lips light pink - 10k
Hyades eyes lilac & red - 40k
Jiniri tail fuchsia, blue iris, bright turquoise & midnight blue - 24k
Light gen 12 heart gold - 7k
Los Muertos mouth maroon - 20k
Ma cherie eyes coffee - 20k
Lynx spots light sand & royal purple - 20k
Mermaid eyes soft pink & midnight blue - 90k
Midnight rose coat - 60k
Opera, mask & house cream white - 15k
Peacock eyes, fan & wings - 45k
Ravenhued background black, gray white, midnight blue & mocha - 60k
Shiva arms - 10k
Sleeping beauty eyes silver - 10k
Stone gargoyle cathedral lime green, midnight blue & mocha - 30k
Swan queen hair extension - 10k
Takeshita dori hair black & original - 18k
Takeshita dori hairclip black & original - 10k
Valentine '10 cheek heart - 12k
Water spirit background, skin, eyes, tail, ears, fins, hair - 50k

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