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Re: The Coffee House|Now Opened
Posted: Dec 18th, '22, 22:44
by Moi
I never wanted to be in my 30s.
I wanted to cry when I turned 30 xD
I don't mentally feel this old :\
Re: The Coffee House|Now Opened
Posted: Dec 18th, '22, 23:08
by MoodyBats
I feel 30's is better than 20's.
20's is all figuring out life lolol
Re: The Coffee House|Now Opened
Posted: Dec 19th, '22, 23:04
by Moi
Yeah, but 30s is you being older than 20s.
Someone said "Being in your 30s is just like being in your 20s only you have money u8"
Re: The Coffee House|Now Opened
Posted: Dec 20th, '22, 13:25
by MoodyBats
to me it really doesn't matter if I'm 20 or 30 lolol.
my 20's have just been me dealing with trauma and grief
so I want to leave me 20's behind me.
Re: The Coffee House|Now Opened
Posted: Dec 20th, '22, 22:56
by Moi
Someone talked about the concept of humans aging backwards.
Like you start old and you end as a sperm.
They made it sound good xD
Re: The Coffee House|Now Opened
Posted: Dec 21st, '22, 23:35
by MoodyBats
I'm someone who is just different about age lolol
Re: The Coffee House|Now Opened
Posted: Dec 22nd, '22, 22:55
by Moi
Yeah, it seems so. I still wish I was young. I mean maybe it's because my childhood wasn't that happy xD
Re: The Coffee House|Now Opened
Posted: Dec 22nd, '22, 23:06
by MoodyBats
mine wasn't either lol.
immediate family being the only source of happiness.
outside of it was traumatic stuff lol
Re: The Coffee House|Now Opened
Posted: Dec 23rd, '22, 10:36
by Vivacity
Heyo, I hope you don't mind me dropping in here! My activeness on KofK can fluctuate a lot haha, but I'm here for now at least, trying to be little active. ^^
Regarding coffee, I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow, but there's a cafe nearby that I hadn't been to before, and I saw they have a rose latte, so excited to have that tomorrow as a treat!
As to aging...I am actually getting pretty freaked about getting towards 30 (I'm 27), but I think it's because of the pressure I have on myself? Like, I feel like I haven't "achieved" that much and I feel like I'm "behind," if that makes sense? So many of my peers have kids and houses, and here's me barely being able to cook for myself and unable to drive, etc. (I have really, really, really bad anxiety about driving).
I do agree I've heard people like their 30s more than 20s though, and I do think that yeah my late 20s have been decently better in some ways because I don't stress out as much about some things I would worry about when I was younger! Mostly like...I'm more okay with being myself and not caring as much about what other people think. Also getting better at not letting my parents affect me as much (my upbringing was...not great).
Re: The Coffee House|Now Opened
Posted: Dec 23rd, '22, 23:18
by Moi
I mentally feel younger than my physical age so I don't act like I'm 34 then get looked down on for not acting 34. So I don't want to be 34. I also don't want to reach 40.
As I get older, all I have to look forward to is everyone dying and me being sickly and then me dying.
Sooooo very depressing u8
I have wondered if this is because I have chronic depression and I don't have medication for it.
I feel like I'm being realistic, though. Not depressing or pessimistic.