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Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Oct 22nd, '17, 17:48
by memoriam
Aw, well, you gotta date a Ted

Okay, but more seriously: I'd just let things happen if they happen, not to force anything. If he'll like you enough, I'm sure he'll let you know about it somehow sooner or later. And then you'll only be left with the decision if you're up for it
though him being so open about it was kind of a teeny tiny sign for me that he'd actually be interested XD But don't listen to me, I'm a hopeless romantic
*roots for Julez's future new bf* *o3o* I need pompoms icon ;>_>
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Oct 22nd, '17, 19:17
by LittleJulez
Haha yea xD
Of course that is the best choice, to let everything happen.
Right now I won't try anything. Unless I am more secure about my feelings.
For example, of course I wanted to hold his hand or kiss him or lean on him and the like, but I didn't do it. 1) He was too drunk, I want such things to happen when we are sober (he was not THAT drunk, but one could see he had a few drinks, but he still talked and moved secure and normal), I had nothing to drink.
2) I feel like I should really take my time this time :D He won't run away from me, he still lives here for at least 3 years, me two, so yea, we have time xD And we see each other a few times a week so ... No worries.
mem, that's what I thought, too!
Why should he point out, what our friend said to him, when he finds this absurd? So I hope you are right here :D
Haha yea, you and your pompoms xD
(better do not talk about "future bf" here or I will get excited :D)
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Oct 22nd, '17, 21:27
by memoriam
Yea, better not let things happen when any of you isn't fully sober. Drunken decisions are never good

Three years is a good amount of time to discover the friendship
Riight? XD Let's hope it wasn't just a drunken man thinking about the content of your panties XD
It's funny how we got actual pompoms items but I sold them off because I thought I'd never use them. And how I throw confetti all over the forum but I don't want to euip the anniversary garlands (which are confetti basically) on my avi XD *mem is full of contradictions*
Okay, I'll seal my big mouth OxO
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Oct 22nd, '17, 22:13
by LittleJulez
Totally! I think we are both not too eager to find out, I want to let it be the way it will be without forcing any body contact
(although he is hot) :D
You know, he has this skater style I adored when I was a teen. Seemingly I still like it :D And he is finally a few years older, not only 1-3 or even younger. He is 28. I simply noticed young men do not work for me.
And he is down to earth and very eager when it comes to studying (wants to become a doctor),
Oh wow I have to stop flattering.
He is really not like that, I can be sure of that xD
(Although this drunk friend pointed out he is really good in bed, at least that's what he has heard of him xD)
Ouh yea this garland... Not too fond of it either.
Need to work out tomorrow again.
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Oct 22nd, '17, 22:49
by memoriam
Yeah, stop gushing over him or you'll fall in love XD
I hope he's not like that

But if anything happens, I cross my fingers his friend was right XD
I was drunk at my 18th b-day and kept telling people how good Ash is in bed. His face was beet red XD
Loool, I was supposed to work out today, but it's really late... Maybe I'll do a few sit-ups and push-ups and squats and that's all

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Oct 23rd, '17, 00:20
by jacobgrey
My parents fight a lot too, somehow they like it. I don't know how. By this time, when I go back to visit them, I literally go shut myself in my room when they fight because I can't take anymore >.> they like to live in basically a war zone. For some reason they love each other more for fighting.
Sounds like something could be in the works Julez :3 a similar thing happened to J and I, did nothing about it at the time but we ended up together probably 8 months later so who knows :D
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Oct 23rd, '17, 12:47
by LittleJulez
My parents fight all the time, especially when they spend a lot of time together. I wonder how they could live their whole lives together... I think it would be better for them to be divorced, but they do not know many people and have no friends, so I guess they are staying together because they need each other.
So I am very sorry to hear about your situation Jacob.. :( I can totally understand why you want to hide in your room.
Oh now you raise my hopes up xD
I've heard of a few people being good friends and then, one day, they developed feelings and bam - together.
I am happy for you guys :)
And mem, haha, I bet Ash was super ashamed, but proud at the same time :D :D
I am very lucky, I had no bad bed experience yet.
Worked out and I feel exhausted, but also very good!
Guys, I cannot wait for tomorrow when I will see him again :D
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Oct 23rd, '17, 13:19
by Chrizine
Hehe, reading you being all excited about meeting him makes one wonder ^^
But just taking it as it comes and seeing where it leads is a good approach :)
I'm holding my thumbs for you that it will lead somewhere good, whether it's a romance or a friendship, the most important part is that you end up agreeing on where it's going.
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Oct 23rd, '17, 15:18
by memoriam
I've experienced many fights/arguments, I think majority of them was when dad was drunk. Anyways, I hate people are yelling not matter if at me or just next to me, I just want to hide then.
Or die. So I get you guys QnQ
But wow, your parents' relations are weird xD
@Julez: He was like "thank you, but why the hell are you telling them this?!

" XD Still, he never stopped me

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Oct 23rd, '17, 16:59
by LittleJulez
Yea right, I am already too much into this :D
I try my best not to get too involved..
Thanks Chrizine, this is exactly what I think about it as well. We make great friends, if it will be more or "just" this - I do not care (now).
And you are totally right, the most important aspect is that we agree on what we want :3
Haha yea, Ash probably liked it, it is flattering of course xD