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Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂

Posted: Nov 15th, '17, 18:40
by jacobgrey
We planned out things like our kids names and where we will live XD we changed our minds a lot but it seems like he's always happy to imagine. He also says he doesn't want to give up sleep and free time but hey, me neither lol. Doesn't mean I don't want kids more than I want sleep XD

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂

Posted: Nov 15th, '17, 23:45
by Dream-Baby
That's a lot of nice things to plan. :}

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂

Posted: Nov 16th, '17, 12:08
by LittleJulez
Oh you guys seem so much more ahead of me O.O
Planning things like occupation and accommodation.. But that's nice! 8 years ago I also thought I'd be married with 25. I am 22 now and as far away from this point as one can be. So in your case I would be happy about how far in life you are xD
I mean, at least you have partners you live with already. And you are sure you want to spend the rest of your lives together..
I have no idea how the next months of my life even look like.

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂

Posted: Nov 16th, '17, 13:50
by jacobgrey
We're 5 years ahead of you so you have time to plan yet XD also worth noting that our plans haven't worked out so well rofl~

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂

Posted: Nov 17th, '17, 00:37
by Dream-Baby
I always thought I would be in a solid relationship by 25, instead I was in a crappy one and ten years later I'm still single. :}

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂

Posted: Nov 17th, '17, 11:06
by jacobgrey
When I was a kid I thought I'd be published, successful, and probably married with a massive house when I was 18 :'D

I remember getting to 18 and thinking, "well, that was quick :|"

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂

Posted: Nov 17th, '17, 12:25
by LittleJulez
Haha, seems like we all had fantasies we did not achieve xD But that's fine, they are only wishes of course...
But that's the problem with desire: If you do not get what you want/planned on having at a later point in life, you are disappointed when you reach this point and you haven't achieved anything yet...

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂

Posted: Nov 17th, '17, 12:31
by jacobgrey
It's always easy to underestimate how long something takes, too.

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂

Posted: Nov 17th, '17, 18:33
by memoriam
*crawls in* Hiiii :mcargh: Sorry for not being so active lately. I sleep in a lot and yesterday I had to go do some work stuff then I finally met up with my bestie! :qh: We've spent about 9 hours together - still not enough x.x That's probably because we last saw each other on New Year's XD But her schedule has gotten clearer now, so here's hoping for more frequent meetings :mcsquee: I showed her the Kingdom! I could not shut up and she was like wooow, there's a lot going on here! But she said it looks fun so yay XD Maybe (if I remind her, lol) she'll join us after she defends her master's, but we'll see. She's always busy anyways :qt:

When I was younger I thought I'd be married at 16/17, I'll have my fist child at 18/19 and everything will be dope and dandy :D Lol, nope, life slapped me XD

It's surprisingly hard to estimate how long something will take. Probably because there are many factors that are big mean surprises, because such is life :qstr: Plus, humans be stupid sometimes.


I sent an application for script/dialogue/monologue/character/etc writer for games... But I think I should've added a cover letter even tho it wasn't required... I should've... *hits her head on the wall repeatedly*
Then I had 4 more job offers saved, and after re-reading them today I decided to not apply for half. I wrote a cover letter for one (but I don't think it's good: too long, off topic and wtf a bit) but didn't send it yet. I'm still thinking about the other offer if I even want to apply.
I got called form one place, but I applied for 2 positions of theirs and the girl didn't tell me which one it was about, so Idunno. But the address is faaaaar away (an hour by public transport) and it's just a game tester/player support... Yea, I'm a lazy bitch.
I forgot to go to teh store today x.x I have to stop sleeping in, seriously :qsweat:

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂

Posted: Nov 18th, '17, 12:09
by LittleJulez
We already are at almost 200 pages here, this hangout grew fast!!

Yea jacob, you are totally right, duration (I just wanted to write 'durance' lol) is often underestimated.

mem, this sounds like you had a lot of fun with your bestie, nice to hear that :)

Although I am sleeping in, too (which means 8.30 usually) I wake up very tired. My body seems awake, but I can barely keep my eyes open.. I do not know what is up with me lately. Maybe the darkness and cold are getting on my nerves, too. Although I am actually not affected by weather changes, usually. But I am getting old :D

Wtf, married with 16/17 sounds like a big deal to me O.O Never.

Even now I am thinking about different things than marriage. Yea sure, this topic is present from time to time when I talk about it with friends (as we basically all changed our views on marriage lately). One friend wants to propose to his girlfriend this year (they are together for 8 years already). They'll soon be finished with their master programmes.
But marriage is closer than children, in my mind. For my situation. Ah I dunno. I want a boyfriend.
But on the other hand I am so busy right now, I am always happy to be able to meet my friends for a few hours a week... A boyfriend does not even fit in...

I feel you with your applications. I wrote a few applications for internships, I even had to write a CV and cover letter in English (as I applied for a position in Dublin), but let's see... I think I would fit in pretty well there, but I don't know how many candidates they have.
Another company called me that they would like to have me basically, but want to meet me, but the city is... 4 hours away from where I live and they could not pay me as it is only a start-up.... Dunno, I think I won't agree. I hope Dublin takes me, then I can drop the start-up.