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Re: A Home For Shadows
Posted: Jun 22nd, '14, 05:24
by meg1124
Yeah same here...
i like the change to your avatar! It looks really good!
Re: A Home For Shadows
Posted: Jun 22nd, '14, 05:57
by Aradiiaa
Thanks :D
Whoo my family's coming over tonight, excited.
Re: A Home For Shadows
Posted: Jun 22nd, '14, 16:49
by meg1124
Aww thats nice! i'm hoping to visit my grandma later this month. None of my family still lives here so I don't get to see them often...
Re: A Home For Shadows
Posted: Jun 22nd, '14, 18:54
by Shadorilia
SORRY YOU GUYS!!! ; 3; I've been away and off with life... pfff... school's ending, yeah!
My family hardly comes over, unless it's the New Years. How are you guys doing?
Re: A Home For Shadows
Posted: Jun 22nd, '14, 20:53
by meg1124
@Shadow
Don't worry about it!! YAY! NO SCHOOL!! Enjoy your summer!
i'm doing pretty good...I'm trying to poll surf cause I need to rack up some more fp for wild knuffel and daycare...I feel so bad polling but I have to...
Re: A Home For Shadows
Posted: Jun 23rd, '14, 05:56
by LieutenantTwitch
- Hello again everyone. I'm in and out myself. ^^; I'll be getting on more frequently from here on out, though.
Anyway, ever since my grandmother had a stroke, my family never gets together either. It doesn't help that my mother is angry at her siblings about how things have been going. I've only seen my aunt once in the past three years and my uncles, none.
Re: A Home For Shadows
Posted: Jun 23rd, '14, 07:05
by meg1124
I'm so sorry about your grandmother.
I understand that situation though...My mom is the youngest of 7 siblings and we only talk to one of them...meanwhile my grandmother refuses to see how her children are treating each other...
On my dads side, talk to my 2 aunts but wish I didn't...they are very rude and backstabbing, and treat my mother horribly(the main reason I am upset).
So basically, out of 9 aunts and uncles(including spouse-16), I talk to 1...
Ugh family situations...
Re: A Home For Shadows
Posted: Jun 23rd, '14, 19:19
by LieutenantTwitch
- Thank you. She's still alive, but functioning on a much lower level. My mother is helping to take care of her but my aunt and uncles disappeared and rarely ever visit their own mother. So, that's part of the reason why my mother is so angry with them.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation too. I know my siblings and I butt heads, but I hope it never gets to the point that if we had kids, they wouldn't see us or their cousins. That just sucks.
Re: A Home For Shadows
Posted: Jun 23rd, '14, 22:35
by meg1124
It bothers me a bit because I do plan on having more than one child, but I have no clue how to deal with sibling situations...I am an only child and the only sibling relationships I have seen are pretty bad...
Re: A Home For Shadows
Posted: Jun 24th, '14, 00:02
by LieutenantTwitch
- Well, I don't have any kids of my own, so I couldn't give you any advice there. xD I know that my parents did a good job with me and my brothers, though. But when they're younger you only have to worry about the smaller things, like figuring out the rightful ownership to a toy. By the time they come across problems strong enough to break relationships, they tend to be old enough that it's mostly out of your hands anyway. Even if my grandmother was lucid enough to realize what's going on with her kids, I doubt anything she could say would make them behave any differently. They're adults, after all. They'll do what they please.