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Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Dec 14th, '17, 02:43
by Lady River
I don't need my glasses all the time but I'm so used to them that I just wear them most of the time, only take it off when getting headaches at home. Also it's hot so it's probably the heat and slight dehydration that's causing headaches.
my sex ed was a bit in year 6 or 7 then some more basics in science classes...there was a pregnancy video but I refused to watch it and so did class work instead.
Then later in year 10? or 11? we had more sex ed from the school nurse. It was separated some of it, so females with nurse, males with someone else. We got to learn a bit more in detail but the only bit that really sticks out is learning how to check for lumps in your breasts.
It was a long time ago for me now, and my memory is always a bit eh.
I think we did touch on the pill a bit. I think implanon was only sort of just getting popular here back then..
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Dec 14th, '17, 12:54
by jacobgrey
I kinda wish they would have boys and girls all in the same lessons because it's not like we exist in a vacuum. I had to teach J so much stuff about periods, how getting pregnant works (like as in small details, not the big picture rofl), and so on. It was kind of embarrassing sometimes early on when I would say something in a roundabout way because I didn't want to say it outright, but he had no idea what I was talking about so I had to explain it in full anyway. If guys learned more about periods they would probably be more tolerant about us having them, like we complained about earlier
I'm getting really anxious/sad. My parents are coming tomorrow to take me back to theirs and after that I don't see J until the 8th January. Possibly the 9th because he can't work out what time he gets back here because of the timezones. I just have tonight and first thing tomorrow before he goes to work </3
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Dec 14th, '17, 21:55
by LittleJulez
Oh wow jacob, this is indeed a long period without him! I can see why you are anxious :(
I play sweetamoris and there's also a calender without effort so I also feel a bit... yea, like getting things for doing nothing xD Not that I am complaining here, but it could be a bit more fun!
I also think you look wintery, mem ^.^
And I agree, I also think males and females should know the same things about sex, STDs and the like. I had to explain so many things to my ex-boyfriends or guy friends. ._.
I talked to a Swedish girl in Swedish today, for 30 minutes! She is very nice and we even talked about history and stuff, so also a bit of a more complex conversation... I am so happy about that, I felt much better in the Swedish class I had after meeting her!
Alright, I think I am going to make a wintery avi now as well! At least I'll try :)
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Dec 14th, '17, 22:30
by memoriam
*hugs jacob* be strong, I imagine what you're feeling. I don't like to get separated with Ash for too long, I'm clingy ;/
Right? Sex ed should be for both genders and on every topic, not just "girl topic-girls only, boy topic-boys only". That's how we get boys who have no idea how their girlfriends work and girls without an idea how condoms work so they get either infected or preggers x.x (just a big generalizations, but you get me)
@Julez: I'm jealous, I wish I could practice Swedish (or any other language I'm learning, lol) like you could. For now I only know my Swedish accent sucks, because I'm unable to even catch the drift of it

It's like my shyness says "you'll sound stupid talking like that" even though I don't think Swedish sounds stupid. *kicks brain*
I like your wintery avi! *Q*
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Dec 15th, '17, 01:24
by jacobgrey
Thanks guys, though you will probably be sick of me moping around in about a week XD I'm so anxious that he will die if I'm not there, I know that sounds stupid but usually I'm the one telling him "don't do that stupid thing, it's dangerous" D:
See, if we all get it, why don't people in charge of schools? -____-
Oooh that's fun Julez. I wish I knew French people to practice with. Also I started learning Korean and then realised there was no point because it's hard for me to learn anything without properly using it (like for example I got really far ahead in French by speaking it a lot with French people and other students at school, but my other languages died really quickly because I knew no one else).
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Dec 15th, '17, 03:22
by Lady River
I'm lucky in that I think Peter's sex ed while shit, his mum was a nurse.
Pretty sure she explained things to Peter and his siblings.
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Dec 15th, '17, 11:07
by jacobgrey
That's pretty good. I remember asking my mum what periods were in McDonalds XD thankfully she didn't freak out but was like "Okay. Well..." and did a whole explanation right then XD
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Dec 15th, '17, 20:42
by memoriam
@jacob: What kind of thing could he do that's so dangerous he might die? o.O
A wild guess, but it's probably because people who are in charge of schools don't really care. Or there's too little of people who care so they can't change anything.
That's how my Hindi and Japanese die
And lol, that sex ed in Mac XD
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Dec 15th, '17, 21:48
by jacobgrey
I don't know, like fight a kangaroo or wander off alone into the outback or pet a wild dog with rabies or something
also his plane could crash or he could be in a car crash because I don't know how well his friend drives or he could I DUNNO I'm just worried
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Dec 15th, '17, 22:06
by memoriam
Don't worry so much, he's an adult, not a 5 yr-old

(although I know guys tend to act like them pretty often...

) Especially stop worrying about stuff like accidents. Those can happen even without him being reckless and IF, god forbid, it happens, it's not your or his fault. And I think it's safe to assume that he has some survival instincts of his own? Maybe they get triggered when you're not around?
Edit: But I get it, I always get worried like that when Ash goes out with his guys and they drink and I worry: maybe he'll feel social pressure to drink more than he's able to (not the type to cave to social pressure), maybe someone attacked him on the way home, maybe he's dead or he can't call me becuase they stole his phone...
and stuff like that ^^;