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Re: evolving wonders.
Posted: Nov 8th, '21, 02:53
by Moi
My own aunt called me a fat retarded bitch because I can't work Bu
Never forgotten that.
I try to always be nice and have something nice to say.
If I don't have anything nice to say, I usually won't say it.
Even if someone is being an asshole, I'll just avoid them or ignore them.
It takes so little to not say something mean or hateful.
Yet people go through the trouble of doing it xD
One super power I really want is to be able to put someone in their place.
No matter what someone says, I have a better comeback for them and they'd be shut up by my response.
I'd only use it on people who deserve it of course 8u
Re: evolving wonders.
Posted: Nov 8th, '21, 18:37
by Amura
I'm great at comebacks.
And at irony.
It's something my students either love or hate xD
Re: evolving wonders.
Posted: Nov 8th, '21, 22:12
by Moi
I'm good at comebacks but I want to be so good people immediately feel shame and regret what they said.
I remember my sister saying something and I just immediately went back at her and she went silent.
My aunt told me "Whoa you're quick with that!"
I think I'm a master at sarcasm and trying to outwit others with insults.
The issue is that sometimes I get angry and don't think.
I always try to think two steps ahead of people and sometimes I don't do it because I'm too angry.
And I hate that. I hate that I get outplayed.
Re: evolving wonders.
Posted: Nov 8th, '21, 22:52
by Amura
Haha, I'm more into subtletiles.
Suggesting more than saying. Raising an eyebrow or looking sideways - as suggesting you know a big deal more than you say.
Re: evolving wonders.
Posted: Nov 9th, '21, 02:49
by Moi
I try not to attack anyone's appearance overall.
I think it's lazy to insult someone's appearance.
There's times where I do it, though.
Like there was this businessman that said ugly people can't wear their clothes.
And he was uh...not pretty himself.
So it's like "Do you wear the clothes 8u"
Re: evolving wonders.
Posted: Nov 9th, '21, 16:47
by Amura
Surely it was a man talking about women.
Because that's an old-time favourite of mine.
I've had that discussion with several (male) teenagers along the years:
- Oh, no, not that girl, she's so ugly/fat/has pimples/small boobs/...
- Who do you think you are? A supermodel?
I'm with you, it's not nice criticizing someone's appearence.
But when someone who takes a lot of care in looking handsome criticizes others at least the judgement makes sense (it's just rude and unkind) but if they do not then it's plain ridiculous.
And I've often seen men/guys talking despectively of women/girls looks, while they apparently don't care a shit about their own looks!
Re: evolving wonders.
Posted: Nov 9th, '21, 21:49
by Moi
Yeah, it was a man.
Guys say they want a real woman but then are repulsed by things like stretchmarks and cellulite and veins.
Yeah, real women have real things Bu
What they want is a living doll <<
I've hated myself most of my life so I don't think I could ever see myself as pretty.
People tell me I am but I don't see it.
Been called ugly so much it just is permanently in my mind.
It's made me question if people are seeing something different than I am xD
Re: evolving wonders.
Posted: Nov 10th, '21, 04:44
by Jessibuns
i havent been very talkative lately lol.
hey everyone
Re: evolving wonders.
Posted: Nov 10th, '21, 14:33
by Amura
Hi Jessi!!
We've taken over your hangout
@Moi:
I was told I'm ugly so many times, by my own parents, that it's also ingrained in my mindset.
I've managed to change my views about myself, but the subconcious level has not managed to really change...
Re: evolving wonders.
Posted: Nov 10th, '21, 21:46
by Moi
Hey Jessi :3
I hope you're doing okay 8u
My parents never called me ugly but other people have.
It's funny because I choose to listen to random people and think I'm ugly and not listen to my loved ones who say I'm pretty.
I guess because they do love me, so their opinion seems biased xD;