Kingdom of Knuffel

I haven't gotten any vaccine for a long time. I think last was in highschool maybe, so at least 6 years ago if not more.

The holidays went fine for me. Except for the awkward moment when my mom's bf asked me to be the maid of honor on their wedding while he still hadn't even asked her to marry him so i was like.... You know, there's some chronology about the whole ordeal
Today we went to my dad and his mom's place and it was pretty nice so I'm happy Also, I got a food baby now, of course

He is planning and my mom is well aware, but it's not because he's actually asked her. He's just kind of decided on his own... He wants her to get money after he dies (kind of his retirement money, or something) which is nice for sure, but on the other hand they don't want to join their properties and so they'd want to sign a prenup, BUT I think it's quite logical that this way she won't actually get his retirement money after he dies so.... it's really pointless.
Not to mention my mom isn't very sure about him.
And I don't like him, he's got the crazy eyes and he doesn't understand the meaning of the word "no". He's really annoying. Like, he has this habit (old courtesy) to kiss a woman's hand and I HATE that, it's disgusting, too much proximity and I fucking ugh NO blergh don't go kissing my hand. And I've told him that on numerous occassions by now and every time he keeps on dragging my hand by force to his mouth and says it's how a man shows respect to a lady. And doesn't get that I don't WANT him to kiss my fucking hand. I've never liked it, so it's not really about him.
But also, it's effing weird that the first time he mentioned something about marriage was to grandma IN FRONT OF MOM, but not directly to her, and if I remember correctly he said "when we get married" and not "IF". And mind you, that was the first time he ever mentioned it. And mom told him then, that he should ask her first. He still hasn't to this day, but keeps on planning some shit. And I don't like that at all.

Haha, it was a cabbage roll food baby XD My paternal grandma handmaid them, they're so good <3 Although I have no idea how she managed to make them since she's kind of really sick after the stroke and heart attack

I feel like she's been "settling" for her whole life, not just with men
Yes, he's been married before (no idea how that happened, lol). I mean, I think he means well with everything but the ay he goes about it just isn't okay with me, not even when it's about treating me/respecting my wishes, but especially with treating mom and respecting HER wishes. He just doesn't seem to listen to anyone, no compromises and that's one of the worst qualities if you ask me. She needs to be heared out and not forced to do things somebody else's way. She prefers to do things on her own and I feel, as much as he may actually care for her etc., that he isn't a good match for her.
I'm a bit worried about the whole situation.

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