Kingdom of Knuffel

I'm always tidy, so there is no need for me to clean. Sometimes the dishes stand in the kitchen for one more day.. But that's it.

Yeah, well, I was in the middle of a post here when Ash burst into the apartment, told me to dress up because we're going for that pizza meeting we had scheduled with his friends. And I'm like, okay, let me finish this post, I had no idea it was right after work. He's like, I told you, I tell him he hasn't told me, otherwise I'd remember it and would be ready to go before he even came home. So he shot up XD Anyways, than he told me how much it costs for one person to enter the festival (there's some pizza festival tonight, but the entry's SO expensive), so I told him it's not really worth it for me to go since I will have 3 pizza slices at best. Then he told me I might be the only girl in there (another guy's gf was supposed to be there, FINALLY, we all joke she doesn't exist 'cause nobody has ever seen her so far, and they're together for 5 years or so?), because he's seen them and he saw no gf, but maybe she'll be late, he doesn't know and I'm like.... In my head, I'm calculating: It's too much money to be worth it, it'll be few hours of just sitting and being bored to death, pretending I'm having fun, I'll be all gassy and unwell from that gluten... Nah, you take my card and have fun, I'm staying home.
If he had told me the price and the gf fact before, I wouldn't have even taken the rats back into the cage and wouldn't have put my pants and sweater on and I wouldn't be all stressed out because he wa stelling me "come on, were late". He could've texted me that he's on his way, we're leaving, get dressed. Or something.
So anyways, I told him to have funa nd he's like "I'm not that sure I'll be having fun" ... ... ... Then why da quack are you going there? Have the flippin' fun, hun. And I'm gonna stay home and maybe watch some more pregnancy and postpartum videos

Exactly. Tell me all the necessary details first, and don't just go demanding and commanding me like a soldier or something It didn't feel nice. And he told me it's only because we're late and he hates being late.
Well, first of all, that was his own fault, but I won't dwell on that. I didn't even tell him it was and I don't think it's worth it to start a fight about it (because he will take it as me starting a fight, even if I'll be only stating some facts and thoughts I've had while he was gone).
But second of all, how many freaking time one of them were super late? So you'll be late 20 minutes, big deal, you're not going on a date, you said so yourself You don't have to be mean to me because you didn't tell me to prepare for an outing.

Huh, that pissed me off more than I realized until I began ranting XD
Maybe because of that I'll let some steam of here and won't be all mean and hurt when he comes back.

Yeah, that's more or less how some of them have been showing up sometimes x.x They even began telling one the meeting was one hour earlier, so he would show up on time XD
I don't really understand why he keeps seeing them and is like "well, I might see them once in a while", he came home and said it was pretty boring... And that there's not much they can talk about, and that he enjoys talking to his co workers more than to his old middle/high school friends But that guy's gf showed up after all, Ash described her as "little orc", which made me glad, I can officially feel lik the best chick of the group XD (although I don't really, but I can at least joke like that XP)

I'm pretty sure Ash would break it off if I kept on starting fights like that, because I used to. Just let him know how angry I was about some minor thing (most of the time it was minor), so I had to learn how to let things go. I overreact still XD But I try to control it.
I ended up telling him he should've let me know by a text or facebook that I'm supposed to get ready, and he said something like "yeah, right, okay, sorry". Which for me sounded like "you're right, but I don't really want to say it like that, and I'm apologizing half-heartedly because I don't want a fight, since you're right", so I took it XD

Usually I don't hold on to it, even if he says sorry just to make me shut up, because I know he's tired of having the discussion, and I'm equally tired so I just don't care anymore. But I stay mad longer if that happens.
Or I just ask him "are you apoligizing to shut me up?" and he'll say yes, and we just laugh at it XD Most of our fights or quarrels end up in laughter, because we turn everything into jokes. Unless it's super serious, but that almost never happens. The only serious thing we've fought about was kids and the likes.

Your parents sound mean XD