I believe a parent is responsible until the kid turns 18. Anything after that, it's up to their kid.
While it wasn't my parents doing it, I did grow up in a Christian school and was told many things I don't agree with now.
I was going along, blissfully until I started having thoughts different to what I was taught.
It lead to a breakdown lasting a year or a year and a half.
I ended up better after it, though.
In the same school I mentioned, girls weren't allowed to wear pants. It was considered a distraction so we had to wear long skirts.
I didn't think on it much then, but now it's like...Why is it MY fault someone else has no self-control Bu
I've heard that said about girls too. I also hear people use the term "underage girl" when they mean a CHILD.
I've heard of cases where the victim is blamed despite being a child.
And sometimes it's the mother who blames the child which is ridiculous.
Like....I can't even >Bu