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Re: Raine's Hangout- <3 OPEN
Posted: May 26th, '14, 13:06
by meg1124
Oh no!!! Feel better!!
Pesonally, if I were someone waiting for a commission I would completely understand if you were sick and needed rest, but its up to you!
Re: Raine's Hangout- <3 OPEN
Posted: May 26th, '14, 21:11
by Melibel
So many impatient and rude people tho, I'd be worried to. But if they're regular followers I'm sure they'd have no problem if you're not feeling to good!
Got offered an interview at Dominoes pizza today, turned it down as I start at the supermarket on Wednesday
Felt bad saying no tho
Re: Raine's Hangout- <3 OPEN
Posted: May 26th, '14, 21:47
by meg1124
You shouldn't feel bad!! You got a good job. And at least your out of fast food now!!
I don't know when you start your new job, but I hope you have a good first day!
Re: Raine's Hangout- <3 OPEN
Posted: May 26th, '14, 22:20
by Melibel
I honesty have no idea why telling people 'No' makes me feel so bad, they were nice enough to invite me to interview after all, just turned another one down at a pub...
Re: Raine's Hangout- <3 OPEN
Posted: May 27th, '14, 02:46
by meg1124
Yea I can understand that...I rarely say no to people...I like to try to accommodate people around me...I'm always caught between wondering if thats a good or a bad thing...
Re: Raine's Hangout- <3 OPEN
Posted: May 27th, '14, 19:20
by Raine Seryn
I am very very lucky with the people who interact with me online. I come across VERY few icky people. =u= Everyone so far has been very nice and understanding about me being sick <3
I can relate to feeling bad about saying no tho. It's taken me YEARS online to just be able to say no to people asking for free art. @_@ I still have a hard time saying no when someone asks for a commission, even if I have them closed. I have to walk away from the computer for awhile and amp myself up to say it. XD
Re: Raine's Hangout- <3 OPEN
Posted: May 28th, '14, 01:59
by meg1124
Well thats good! I'm glad no ones giving you a hard time about it! But even if they do, don't worry about it. Your health is more important.
Re: Raine's Hangout- <3 OPEN
Posted: May 28th, '14, 03:01
by Moi
I'm sorry you're sick.
My mom and I haven't been doing too well either.
It's hard for me to say no as well.
People give me really bad anxiety and I'm always afraid of being yelled at.
Re: Raine's Hangout- <3 OPEN
Posted: May 28th, '14, 09:36
by Raine Seryn
Hehe I'll try ^^; It's hard not to worry, LOL
@ Moi- Ahh I saw that you were sick too! ;___; I hope you feel better soon! And your mom as well. =u= I wish I could make a big pot of chicken soup so we'd all get better LOL
YES. I totally agree about that. @_@ I'm also afraid to disappoint anyone for some reason. Even people I don't even know. Or when I am going out into public I get really bad anxiety because I am terrified that I am in everyone's way.
Re: Raine's Hangout- <3 OPEN
Posted: May 28th, '14, 15:09
by meg1124
@Moi
I'm so sorry your sick!
I hope you and your mom feel better!
@Raine
Thats what I'm like! I'm afraid to disappoint, even strangers...although I don't get anxiety when I go out until I feel I'm bothering someone...
My best friend is trying to help me get over this...just 2 days ago she insisted I had to decide where we go to lunch out of 2 places...normally we just go wherever she suggests but now she turned the table on me...I hate making decisions like that because I am afraid whatever I choose will be the place she doesn't want to go, but she won't say anything...
She refused to make a decision for me so we sat there for another 20 min before I finally just blurted out a name...