Tam I am wrote:*hug for Spirit*
*hugs back* Thanks Tam, I really needed it off my chest last night because I had really only two options, waiting for Keith to get back online in the morning or saying it here(and he already knew because I got the text from my mother after she got texted by the cousin when i was talking to him on the phone) As much as I'd love to let off into my aunt and other cousins about it, I don't want to start a fight with them especially right now, and honestly I think I'm starting to feel the same way my grandmother did about that side of the family, not worth getting involved with.