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Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Mar 5th, '18, 00:08
by Nyuu
I'm like that too, sometimes i say things and then regret it and start thinking like "oh no what will they think" i hate that i do that but i can't help it
Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Mar 5th, '18, 19:40
by memoriam
That's why I often don't speak at all, and I try not to share my opinions because "oh no, what will that prson think of me? I don't want them to think anything at all!" XD
/mem jumps into the convo without any idea what's the topic
Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Mar 5th, '18, 20:01
by Nyuu
Exactly, that's how i feel too! D: It's hard to deal with honestly
Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Mar 5th, '18, 22:37
by memoriam
Yeah, and then you find out they think you're a weirdo for not speaking
Well, maybe I don't talk to you, because you're a bunch of idiots and I don't want to stoop to your level, huh? Did you think about it?
Sometimes that's the case tho ;>_>
Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Mar 5th, '18, 23:06
by Nyuu
lol yes that can be the case exactly!
Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Mar 5th, '18, 23:42
by February
Omg for real though. I recently started attending some business admin classes one day a week as part of my work training. It sucks because I feel like a teen again 
But yes, the chatter that happens then is like... Maybe I will just stay out of this conversation. 
I love when the first thing someone asks a group is which of them do drugs. 
College, man. I don't miss it.
Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Mar 5th, '18, 23:53
by Nyuu
ahh i'm sorry it makes you feel like a teen again o:
Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Mar 5th, '18, 23:53
by memoriam
Haha, that reminds me of this one guy who used to work at my office, who kept bragging to other two guys how much he was high that weekend and that if his wife knew she'd kill him (wife was pregnant btw, they wanted a boy "otherwise it's their life's failure"... then he found out it's a girl and began being all "my lil' princess" and all that, but didn't sound genuine XD anyway), the other guy knew a dealer and was saying things like "hey, if you guys want I can hook you up" and they did want... And then next time they shared their expriences... It was so cringy. When I told my boss that those were the convos the guys have been having all this time, he just couldn't believe it and said he should've fired them all sooner XD
You really know the level of the people just from what they're talking about.
Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Mar 6th, '18, 00:16
by February
Oh my god, mem, what a nightmare bunch of people That guy sounds like such an idiot.
I understand that people make decisions they regret when they're young and irresponsible, but also... they should really have grown out of that when they're working, or at least not talk loudly about it in the workplace
Nyuu, it's not so much the feeling but being back into an education system that is targeted at teens. Spoon feeding and talking down to people. It just encourages young adults to act like children, too, because they play it up, and push against any boundaries that get set. It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Re: ♣~Group Therapy~♣ | For venting, chatting, motivating da
Posted: Mar 6th, '18, 00:27
by memoriam
Yeah, some people never learn how to behave tho...
Aaaand that's why I won't want to go back to uni like everybody else wants me to
