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Re: • • D a r k † S o c i e t y • •
Posted: Feb 26th, '17, 20:35
by Deer In Gray
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Money isn't everything.
Yes, raising a kid costs money, but it's also an investment
in a way. And there is no other experience like raising a child.
It's hard, but it's the most rewarding thing I've ever done.
Although I agree that you should wait until you're
financially stable and on your way before having a kid,
but I don't get why people keep writing these articles
about how absolutely terrible it is to have a kid when they
literally don't even KNOW.
My friend Tesa posted this status about how she went to
the doctor or whatever and they asked if she had kids,
and she was like "yES my dog Chewy!!!!!!!"
And she was complaining about how the doctor kept correcting
her about how NO the dog is NOT your fucking child.
And everyone was like omg I hate those kinds of people!!!!!
So you all hate people with sense? And logic?
To be someone's child, you have to be a least the same SPECIES.
Adopted or otherwise. You can love and care for your
pets but they are NOT. YOUR. KIDS. That's extra fucking stupid
to get mad about. That's like yelling at me because I said
the sky is blue but you think it's maroon. Like, okay that's nice
but you're wrong, so being mad about it will get you nowhere lol
Re: • • D a r k † S o c i e t y • •
Posted: Feb 26th, '17, 20:45
by Moi
Right 8u
I call my pets family.
Not children xD
They're not just "dogs and cat".
But dogs are not kids.
They probably will love you even if you're a dick 8,u
Soooo people who birthed milennials are bitching about how they don't want kids because they're selfish and cheap?
Well, YOU raised them u8
Re: • • D a r k † S o c i e t y • •
Posted: Feb 26th, '17, 21:03
by Deer In Gray
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xD
I think it's smart to not want kids when you're not ready.
I wish I had been that smart and maybe I would have had
a smoother ride, but I'm not going to blame all the hard
things about having a kid directly on Ezra, it's not his fault.
I chose to have him, so why would I do that?
Re: • • D a r k † S o c i e t y • •
Posted: Feb 26th, '17, 21:06
by Moi
You shouldn't have been a ho :U
But he does make you happy.
Now we need to get rid of Angel's fuckery 8u
I kind of do want a kid sometimes.
Someone to be really close to and take care of.
But I only recently learned how to take care of myself.
I'm a pain in the ass ti take care of u8
Re: • • D a r k † S o c i e t y • •
Posted: Feb 26th, '17, 21:32
by Deer In Gray
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xD I was pretty ho-y. But I don't regret having Ezra.
I regret who I made him with, but never Ezra lol.
Angel is getting marginally better.
After I literally left, I guess he decided it wasn't worth it
to lose me (8 I am pretty awesome. xD
He's better now with money management, he still needs
to work on his stupid temper. He literally gets mad about
the most idiotic things ever. And it always directly affects ME.
He always seems to care when Ezra is upset, but when
I'm upset he just continues to be an ass. What kind of logic is that?
You think a happy baby is enough? NO you need a happy wife, too.
How hard is it to NOT be a dickhead?
Although after living with his dad, I see where he inherited it from.
But he's an adult now. You can't just snap every time something
doesn't go your way or you get upset. Part of being a GROWN UP
is having self control.
I know. xD I have 0 mothering instinct yet I have a kid.
It comes as you grow. I was so worried I wouldn't be able to do
or know anything because I didn't care about anyone but me.
How can I raise a kid when I don't even know myself like that yet?
But from actually giving birth, to changing diapers and learning
to speak baby language, it all just came to me. And I definitely
overestimated the difficulty lol. I literally thought I would never
have time to do anything, my life would be nothing but diapers and poop
and screaming . . . but that's just not the case. I still have my life,
and I have a separate home life that involves Ezra and family.
Now I can leave, go to work, come back refreshed from not
being at home 24/7 . . . life is working out.
It was a lot harder, but I'm more persistent now.
I know what I want and I'm making moves to achieve.
I want to go to school, and I will. I want a better job, and
I'm finding one. Before, I wanted to go back to work, and I did.
I know my abilities (8 That makes it easier.
Re: • • D a r k † S o c i e t y • •
Posted: Feb 26th, '17, 21:50
by Moi
Apparently it's really hard not to be an dick
Hard. Dick.
8u
You do take good care of him.
I'm happy that he was born too.
I need to send you your stuff that's probably dust by now u8
I'm proud of you 8U
-hug-
I've been working on changing too.
I can do stuff now I never used to.
Still makes me anxious as fuck xD
I get the fuck back home as soon as I can u,8
Re: • • D a r k † S o c i e t y • •
Posted: Mar 4th, '17, 00:10
by Deer In Gray
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It's doing stuff that makes you uncomfortable
even though you're uncomfortable that makes you better. 8u
It sucks currently but soon it'll all come without the side angst.
It's worth the trouble. I can't imagine where I'd be if I still
has anxiety so bad I didn't want to leave the house.
And with a baby, I would be 500% screwed. xD
Re: • • D a r k † S o c i e t y • •
Posted: Mar 5th, '17, 20:53
by Moi
>XD
Send the bby to do everything for you.
Go to the grocery store, to the tax place, to get gas 8u
Train' em young u8
Re: • • D a r k † S o c i e t y • •
Posted: Mar 19th, '17, 19:00
by lunar_eclipse66
I'm back! sorry about being gone for so long.
Re: • • D a r k † S o c i e t y • •
Posted: Mar 19th, '17, 21:48
by Moi
Is okay 8u ~
What have you been up to?