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Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Nov 21st, '20, 02:05
by Tam I am
...LOL No. But if that deer hits me, he's getting punched in the face.

Because that's the part of the critter I know I can't actually damage with my fist.

On a lighter note. I went nuts with the camera this morning. XD Doll pictures everywhere. I've already shown 'em to Rayven on another site, so I'll show you over in our other thread, Moi.

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Nov 21st, '20, 03:06
by Moi

Rayven: I remember my uncle saying something to me like "We didn't give you the love and attention we should have, so you sought out attention and love in objects."

Yeah, kids have thrown rocks at my dogs too. My mom caught them and told them they needed to get away from our property and they left and I don't think they came back.
But if you got onto the kids for throwing rocks at your dogs and they told their parents, their parents would be like "HOW DARE YOU YELL AT MY KID(S)!!"
I'd be like "I wouldn't have to yell at your little hellspawns if they hadn't been throwing rocks at my dog Bu"
I remember my bestie saying something like "If someone was bullying my son and he beat the bully's ass, I'd be proud. And if the bully's mom came at me, I'd beat her ass too Bu"

They should teach people that having feelings is okay.
It's normal to feel angry, sad, worried, and happy.
I've seen it said that worrying means you don't trust God and you should be shamed.
Sorry, if I have no way to pay my bills and could end up homeless, I consider it forgivable to worry.
God doesn't have to worry about human things because he is God.
I'm not God. I don't want to be God. I will never be God.
And God doesn't snap his fingers and solve my problems.
As a human, I need to live as a human.
That means having feelings.
That means learning and growing.
It doesn't mean I need to be a perfect little doll.

I could probably do it if I was starving and people were depending on me, but I'd feel guilt the rest of my life xD

Um, well...more than likely the pets would eat their owner's corpse xD
I remember listening to these true first responder stories and this person found out that this woman had died and her cats had been eating her.
They were like "THOSE LITTLE MONSTERS I HATE CATS THEY'RE EVIL!!"
I was like "Wow. What an idiot xD" and went down into the comments and people were like "They're CATS. They were HUNGRY." and "Wow you hate cats for being cats." and "They're animals and doing what animals naturally do."

Tam: Understandable. I remember this cat trying to attack the other cats and I was like "I don't care, I'll fight a cat >Bu"

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Nov 21st, '20, 13:55
by Rayven
Tam-*pictures Tam punching a deer in the face* I don't usually condone hitting animals but that is an amusing mental image. XD

Maybe you should box a kangaroo! I think they like to fight. XD










Moi-That sounds so sad. :qcry:

I know. *rolls eyes* I was never one of those parents, I knew my kid deserved it. XD Your bestie sounds like a hoot! XD

You make a lot of sense. *nods* I just wish I didn't let people get to me so much. Not just because of God, but because they're not worth it. I feel like I should be able to control my feelings more at my age, but maybe I'm just trying to be a perfect little doll and I shouldn't do that.

Me too. XD Let's hope we never had to do that.

*throws up* Well, yeah. They'd eventually run out though. I know they can't help it when that happens but it would freak me out if I saw it too.

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Nov 21st, '20, 21:52
by Moi

Rayven: Yeah, it does xD

Some people think their kids are completely innocent. Like with me, I don't have a kid but my sister is the right age to be my kid. And I know she's not innocent, but I also know people have picked on her. So if she were to get in trouble for hitting someone, I believe she had a reason to. She's not a bully.
I remember this girl was jerking on my sister's friend's hair and calling her a bitch. She reached out to touch my sister and my sister slapped her arm away and told her to leave her alone.
My sister got detention for it. And...we didn't punish her.
Like if someone is being an asshole and they touch you and you slap their arm away - I don't find that wrong xD
People wanna preach keeping your hands to yourself, but fuck that.
When someone reaches out and touches you like that, you're perfectly free to slap their arm away xD
And yeah, my bestie is hilarious. And she loves her boys.

I know what you mean. I know people shouldn't get to me, logically, but it still hurts my heart.
Like when that person watched me play and told me I sucked.
Eventhough I know they were being petty and it's not worth my time - it still worries me when I play the game.
Like will someone insult me again?

People want to always be happy. People force themselves to do stuff and not do stuff. Sometimes you just gotta let loose. Yell, kick stuff, tell someone to go screw themselves, etc.
You will feel relief. You didn't want to let loose, but it has helped you.
It's the same with crying. People say "Don't cry!" "Crying doesn't help!" but crying is really good.
I remember when I was younger, people would scream at me when I'd cry.
But even now, crying gives me relief.

I wrote about this guy saying "The dog was eating an oh-possum."
My dad commented "Take it from me their not tasty at all"

Right. But I mean...cats aren't evil they're just cats being cats xD

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Nov 22nd, '20, 03:51
by Tam I am
God gave people feelings for a reason. That said, sometimes when I get dissed I manage to remember to ask God to help me with it. It feels so good when I go from slagged off and confused to kindly and sweet and cheerful. Which that'd happened more than once. o_O Most the time I scowl at them, and then go home and whine at God, and THEN I'm like, "That poor stupid dip. What a cruddy life if they have to insult a nobody like me." And then there are the times I yell back at them... And go cry to my psychologist because I feel like I was mean. LOL

I sometimes remember the scripture about heaping coals of fire on your enemies head by being nice to them. Seems like the best prank ever. Make them wonder what you know. Buahaha.

...Please forgive me, guys, I'm tired and had a slightly painful day.

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Nov 22nd, '20, 04:40
by Moi

I was always told "Kill 'em with kindness!"
If I don't like someone, I tend to avoid them.
If I don't like something that's happening, I avoid it.
I don't understand how people can just...react to it?
Like say you don't like someone, you just march up to them and tell them you don't like them.
I would never do that.
It seems like it'd be messy and I don't want to deal with messy.

I also try to think "Maybe this person is having a hard time." and it keeps me from reacting negatively a lot.
I'll never forget this story I read online - I don't know if it was actually true, but it opened my eyes a bit.
I don't remember it fully, but it was about a cashier ringing up someone's items and they kept making mistakes so the customer yells at them and makes an ass out of themselves.
Come to find out, the cashier was making mistakes because they had just found out a loved one of theirs had committed suicide before their shift.
So they were really distracted.
So I always try to think "What's this person struggling with?"

Then there are people that are just miserable and are only happy when they steal happiness from others.
Having lived with someone toxic like that for about a decade or more, I just can't stand them.
They ruin my happiness constantly and they will never change.
So fuck them Bu


What happened, Tam 8,u?

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Nov 22nd, '20, 04:54
by Tam I am
Just health stuff.

*hug* Yeah, that stuff. When I holler at people they've usually just neearly run me down in a crosswalk, or screamed at me.

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Nov 22nd, '20, 05:02
by Moi

Well, I hope you feel better :3 -hug-

Speaking of idiot drivers, we have a corner that has a lot of accidents because people don't yield.
There's two yield signs and I will see people go 60 mph and just speed past the signs.
And sometimes there's people who walk their kids home from school and kids walking to the sno-cone place and just people walking to the grocery store.
The last accident we had there was...early last month or late September - this truck was hit so hard it flipped upside down and there was a kid or two in it =_=
But one night, I went outside to feed the cats and someone almost ran the yield sign and hit the other person.
And they had the nerve to slam on their horn and honk at the other person, when THEY almost killed the other person >___>

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Nov 22nd, '20, 09:49
by Tam I am
I've got a dangerous corner a block or two from my place too. It's got a fatality sign on it now, after the last wreck, which covered the intersection in car fluids.

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Nov 22nd, '20, 19:27
by memoriam
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