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 Post subject: Re: [Helping Hand] ~ Monthly raffle CLOSED ♥
Posted: Apr 29th, '19, 18:41    


light_sucks

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Man, that sounds awesome. I'm super jelly. lol.
I'm amazed by your ability to save up so much money.

We're lucky if we have 100 bucks in savings at any given time. Not to mention we use every cent of husband's check to survive. America sucks balllls.

I don't think that we have hostels here. I feel like that would be viable if you like slept on your suitcase. lol.

Does your boyfriend go to the cons with you?


What is ccs?

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 Post subject: Re: [Helping Hand] ~ Monthly raffle CLOSED ♥
Posted: Apr 29th, '19, 18:49    


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I've been lucky to have stayed with my parents for a time while working full-time. Obviously now with bills to pay my savings have reduced but I've always known the moment I got my job that it was a must that I save up! I put away a big part of my paychecks back then esp cause I knew once I moved out I'd really need to have savings to rely on should anything happen c':

I have months where I can't save up that amount due to unforeseen expenses. I have months where I'm not putting anything in my savings due to circumstances like lots of holidays (December is a nightmare, got 2 birthdays in the family and Christmas) etc. It makes it all the more important for me to be really strict for myself and make sure that all the other months I do get to set aside something.

No boyfriend here, I go with my bff which is my best friend (forever) ;'P

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 Post subject: Re: [Helping Hand] ~ Monthly raffle CLOSED ♥
Posted: Apr 29th, '19, 18:58    


light_sucks

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That is nice. I'm really glad for you. It's great you were wise enough to realize how important savings and things are at such a young age.

Oh yeah, holidays are so difficult. My mom's and neice's birthdays are in December so it's rough. I usually only try to get presents for my husband and my best friend. I guess it's good I don't have a lot of IRL friends. I'd be so bankrupt! lol.

I must have misread BFF as BF. Sorry about the confusion.
That sounds super fun! I've only ever been on vacation with family. I imagine it would be so much cooler with a friend. lol.

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 Post subject: Re: [Helping Hand] ~ Monthly raffle CLOSED ♥
Posted: Apr 29th, '19, 19:08    


Popodoki

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Ha I have my grandfather, parents, bff and a niece/cousin (we do secret santa) to get presents for for Christmas. Then 2 of my friends have birthdays the 29th of December, they're twins haha

I'm still thinking of what to get my mom for Mother's day too X.x

I've been on vacations with friends a lot of times, esp to conventions since my parents aren't really interested in those haha

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 Post subject: Re: [Helping Hand] ~ Monthly raffle CLOSED ♥
Posted: Apr 29th, '19, 19:19    


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My best friend buys presents for all of her family members. And they're a catholic family so there are a ton. I don't know how she has any money left over. lol.

I remember your twin friends. You did an art contest where they were options for entries.

I don't get my mom anything for mother's day. We do try to get my mother in law something. Usually a candle. She likes candles.

That makes sense.
My husband is my family but we are also best friends. So we have a lot of the same interests.

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 Post subject: Re: [Helping Hand] ~ Monthly raffle CLOSED ♥
Posted: Apr 29th, '19, 19:54    


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We hold a secret santa among the youth for exactly that reason. I seriously can't afford to give my 7 nieces/nephews gifts on top of my grandfather and parents! Plus they're all younger and students. Only 2 of them have student jobs so yeah they definitely can't afford it all either c':

and I'm still building up that album haha at this rate they won't get it till a few more years xD

I'd love to get her something from MCM but of course that falls AFTER Mother's day so I can't really tell her to wait xD

my brother always gets her a bouquet of flowers.

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 Post subject: Re: [Helping Hand] ~ Monthly raffle CLOSED ♥
Posted: Apr 29th, '19, 20:23    


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I always loved the idea of a secret santa. Especially if I get someone I know pretty well. I love getting people gifts and watching them unwrap them. It's such a nice feeling.

Lately I've mostly been making the presents.

Oh noes. I feel it would be easier if you could share a picture of them. It's really hard to draw people without knowing what they look like.

Maybe you could do a placer gift. Like I have another present coming in but I haven't gotten it yet.

I like flowers but I don't like getting a bunch of bouquets. I'd rather have a potted flower or something that I can enjoy for some time. Bouquets die so quickly.

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 Post subject: Re: [Helping Hand] ~ Monthly raffle CLOSED ♥
Posted: Apr 29th, '19, 20:46    


Popodoki

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I love doing the secret santa, its fun and also usually makes for a higher budget for a gift, having to get 1 niece or nephew something instead of all 7!

I love making presents, I've made a lot of friendship boxes etc for my friends c':
But I do though? Like all my contests so far have had an entire album with pictures to reference?

My mom likes flowers but tbh he mostly does it cause he has 0 inspiration and its an easy gift >>

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 Post subject: Re: [Helping Hand] ~ Monthly raffle CLOSED ♥
Posted: Apr 29th, '19, 21:29    


light_sucks

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How many siblings do you have?
Yeah, 7 is a ton. And kids are often super picky about gifts.

Those sound cute!
I mostly do perler art. My art page:
https://www.facebook.com/debralynnashbyDDD/

I also crochet a little. I wish I was better at crocheting. I need to watch some youtube videos.

-stares at link-
How the fuck did I miss that?!
Man, I would have totally made some art if I had known. Ohhhhh wellll.

Yeah, I figured. It's hard to mess up flowers. Unless someone's allergic to something. That will be a downer.

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 Post subject: Re: [Helping Hand] ~ Monthly raffle CLOSED ♥
Posted: Apr 30th, '19, 08:34    


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I also want to see Japan one day :)

Popodoki, is your neighbour nice to you by now? Or were there any more problems?

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