Kingdom of Knuffel

That's her problem then. I'm sure a lot of people don't like her either if she's that type of person. Pay no mind to her. Just hold polite conversation if she pushes then walk off.

I think there's no point in worrying about someone you don't like. Just leave them be, why waste your energy. People you don't like don't deserve any thought imo.

oh if I see her again I'll either ignore or be polite.

It's hard when she was the root of a lot of issues for me for a while. Including the pun there.

I still hate that she now badmouths Peter. Like hell, I know he was a stupid idiot years ago but he's not now.

Also my anxiety has been plaguing me about her.. so it's hard to just stop thinking about the whole thing

Do you plan to always live in this town/city/burb/dunno?

It'll be nice if you can physically distance yourself.

@River, look. I still have an anxiety about meeting my brother-in-law, though I know he's in London. I still have super huge anxiety whenever my grandma says my sister will come over with a huge smile on her face. It makes me sick just to think about how I could meet her, because I feel hurt by her. I used to fear meeting her friends. I'm over the last bit, but still have issues with the first two. Despite how ridiculous it is. But when I meet her, I mostly ignore her, give her the cold look. Don't talk to her, barely say hi. Because she does not deserve my attention. I just keep on doing my own thing, even though her voice from behind the wall makes me want to go there and choke her.

You're currently building your whole world around the thought of avoiding Peter's ex. But you know what? Fuck her. Fuck it if she badmouths him or both of you. who is she that you care about her opinion? Is she important to you? No, she's just a regular psycho bitch, not worth yoour energy and time and effort. You can always sue her for defamation (at least you could in Poland) if needed. She's NOT important, so don't think of her all the time. You have to work over that fear, it's ruining your psyche.

Yes.

Alas not possible unless she moves or somehow for unknown reasons we move (doubt we'll move).

I just have to get through the mental battle again.

Mentally distancing yourself is hard. Took me a while, but my situation was slightly different, I was ambivalent about my sister, not bf's ex. So I was kind of attached to the thought she'd change and all that crap.
Your situation is easier, just give the thoughts of her a cold shoulder, don't entertain them too much

Whooo, go mem!

No choking people mem ~

Well since you have no plans on moving then definitely work on not giving her a thought. Not even worth your time gurl.

Mm easier said than done when last time I saw her she said hii shanna in a huge loud annoying voice...

I was playing pokemon go as I walked by her so I could ignore her somewhat.

I just have to as said go through the mental battle again. Because my brain won't shut up.

Poshi wrote:No choking people mem ~

B-but... she deserves it...
I'd choke her just a little until she'd realize her mistakes and apologized... or turned purple

@River: No matter how loud someone greets you, you can always ignore them. It's your right to ignore the people you hate

Lets never get on mems bad side.

Lol River, I think if anyone saw her say it like that they'll just think she's crazy. It's a reflection on her so you can simply just laugh at her stupidity.