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Re: ↓ → qυιℓℓ & cαиvαs 【 αи σc нαиgσυт 】 ← ↑
Posted: Jul 27th, '12, 21:51
by Mikael Hart
Why don't you ask him? Is he too busy?
Re: ↓ → qυιℓℓ & cαиvαs 【 αи σc нαиgσυт 】 ← ↑
Posted: Jul 27th, '12, 21:57
by Moi
He works all the time and sleeps when he's not working or he's with his girlfriend.
He also messed up his arms, so he can't do everything he wants to do.
Re: ↓ → qυιℓℓ & cαиvαs 【 αи σc нαиgσυт 】 ← ↑
Posted: Jul 27th, '12, 22:09
by Mikael Hart
Ah I see. You need to get over your fear of people and go out and make friends. Then you can play catch with them. >>b
Welp, that's how it worked for me.
Re: ↓ → qυιℓℓ & cαиvαs 【 αи σc нαиgσυт 】 ← ↑
Posted: Jul 27th, '12, 22:11
by Moi
I don't know how to make friends.
And it doesn't help being around people makes me uncomfortable.
Re: ↓ → qυιℓℓ & cαиvαs 【 αи σc нαиgσυт 】 ← ↑
Posted: Jul 27th, '12, 22:16
by Mikael Hart
Welp, we talked about what friendship is last night. Just review.
Most people want to establish connections with others as well; it takes effort, but it's not hard. When I go to school, we make friends by talking about classes or passing candy around during lectures (and this goes on in college. XD) We also develop study groups or even just start with daily greetings and smiles. It's not like they'll be your BFF in an instant, but at least you start feeling comfortable and connected with each other.
Don't you think that doing nothing but sitting around at home will make you feel even more disconnected from society in a long run? It's even worse for you to do nothing than do something.
Re: ↓ → qυιℓℓ & cαиvαs 【 αи σc нαиgσυт 】 ← ↑
Posted: Jul 27th, '12, 22:21
by Moi
I feel safe at home and not out doing things.
I'm more likely to be killed when out of the house.
Besides, I have trouble trusting people.
Why should I open myself up to someone and allow them to hurt me?
Re: ↓ → qυιℓℓ & cαиvαs 【 αи σc нαиgσυт 】 ← ↑
Posted: Jul 27th, '12, 22:24
by Mikael Hart
You feel safe, but you also feel depressed and lonely. Are you really satisfied with living the way you do? Are you satisfied with not doing anything to change your unhappiness?
Opening yourself up may mean you get hurt, but it also opens up opportunities for joy that you might've never experienced otherwise. Life is about taking chances. Life is about trying.
You don't seem to think it's worth it to try, but not trying makes you sad and dissatisfied with your life.
Re: ↓ → qυιℓℓ & cαиvαs 【 αи σc нαиgσυт 】 ← ↑
Posted: Jul 27th, '12, 22:31
by Moi
There will always be unhappiness.
What does it matter if it's here at home or out somewhere?
Happiness and joy don't last forever.
Re: ↓ → qυιℓℓ & cαиvαs 【 αи σc нαиgσυт 】 ← ↑
Posted: Jul 27th, '12, 23:45
by Mikael Hart
Ah, sorry, had to go over to my cousin's house. My friend is on his way here too, so I'll be gone again in a bit.
There will always be unhappiness, but the amount of it isn't the same. If there's a greater chance for happiness by going out, then isn't it better to go out and be more happy?
Happiness and joy doesn't last forever, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't find opportunities to increase it. Happiness and joy are precious, it should be something that we should chase after, instead of wallowing in negativity.
Re: ↓ → qυιℓℓ & cαиvαs 【 αи σc нαиgσυт 】 ← ↑
Posted: Jul 28th, '12, 00:41
by Moi
We're just too different.
I don't like taking risks and being hurt.
I'm also very confused by people and how they act and think.
The older I get, the more I don't like the world.
There's too many people in it that don't make sense.