Kingdom of Knuffel

Agreed with Mem, need some therapy or something.

My parents had a rocky relationship, mum hated it when people lied to her even white lies, etc. (she hated secrets too which I kinda get but like that's another topic really).

Anyway dad tried to quit smoking many many times. In my teens and later when I hit 18 even, he tried. Except when he got stressed from work etc, so he'd buy some cigarettes and smoke secretly. We'd find the butts and stuff. Mum would go ape on him for it. I think mum put up with it in the end tbh, and well it wasn't healthy for either of them, and honestly maybe they would have been better to separate but they never did. Nearly a few times earlier when I was younger but I think cause of having 3 kids, mum didn't walk out on him.

Basically, don't put up with it. Don't put up with the bullshit. But do talk it out and get therapy.

I hope that helps.

Day two, still waiting for that period. Boobs hurt without fail. Pregnancy test came out... botched. So just trying not to freak out.
It doesn't help with the writing

mem, it's just two days, it'll come :)

jacob, I can totally understand that you don't want to socialize that much.. Take your time to figure things out :)

@jacob: Take the time off, come whenever you feel like it

@Julez: Third day, still not coming. To be honest, I'd rather it didn't come XD I mean, my periods are usually spot on, if anything they come earlier, but last time it was late was in May, and only one day. I'm a textbook 28 days cycle. I'm on vacation this week so no work stress. There have been no arguments, no drama in the family etc. Everything's peaceful. So if one pregnancy test came out with an error and the second one came out negative then I'm yeah, kind of worried there's something wrong with me.
Though I'd rather have an error and a false negative, not gonna lie xD
I exercised, took a warm bath, nothing. I'll just keep waiting, but I'm kind of pissed, I was so happy I was going to suffer my period at home, comfy, etc. and now I'm worried I'll be having it after I come back to work. Which makes me think "period, at this point, don't even bother coming at all, we can skip this month, I hate when people disrespect me and my time" XD

Edit: I got the flo the next day... well. pity.

Hello Memoriam! I am sorry it took me so long to come in here, life took over for a bit, well sickness I should say actually. My entire household has been cycling through colds and the flu. Lol.
How are you?

Hi!!! I'm so happy to see you here! :D Don't worry about taking long, I wouldn't call it that anyways ;P Especially you've been sick and probably taking care of other cranky people
I'm okay, first day at work after a week off. A bit dazed. And lazy tbh XD

Oh my gosh, yes! My husband is such a baby when it comes to being sick. Lol. He was whining and miserable to be around whereas my 4year old was hacking up a lung, high fever, running around saying "I'm not sick! I want to play outside with Skyler!" as it's also raining/snowing and he's wiping his nose on his sleeve. It was very amusing seeing both sides of the sick spectrum when it came to attitudes. I myself had to of course keep up on all my Mom duties despite having a high fever and hardly breathing as well.

Ah I dread the first couple days back to work, when I did work, after being on vacation or out sick. It's almost like it's your first day again, you just kind of blank sometimes. I hope your daze fades off fast. Lol. What kind of work do you do?

Lol. Hello Grey
I'm not sure what is going on, but I am very glad you got him to go to therapy for lying! My Husband had a HUGE lying problem the first few years of our relationship, along with other things, and he did the same thing, just saying he'd change. He either would not change or the change would only last 2weeks most, then back to being a lying piece of shit. Lol.
He did not do therapy, but we eventually got everything worked out and are now very happy and we laugh about how messed up the first like 2-3yrs of our relationship was.