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 Post subject: Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Mar 15th, '20, 20:44    


Moi

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It seems like I'm always stressed, so less is better xD;

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 Post subject: Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Mar 15th, '20, 22:21    


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I have a stress disorder, but when it's something I have control about it's more manageable than when it's something I can't really do anything against. :}

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 Post subject: Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Mar 15th, '20, 23:02    


Moi

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I tend to stress and worry about everything xD
So I try not to pack more on.
Doesn't work, but 8u

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 Post subject: Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Mar 16th, '20, 09:10    


LittleJulez

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Yea uncontrollable stress is the issue. I like to plan ahead and have a strategy for everything, but if it's something new and uncontrollable I also tend to be more stressed I guess.

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 Post subject: Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Mar 16th, '20, 21:29    


Moi

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That's exactly the issue 8u
I don't like being taken by surprise, so I tend to worry so I'm prepared for anything.
If I worry about something and it doesn't happen - then I feel so much relief.
If I worry about something and it does happen - I'm prepared.

An example would be my dog Saya and my cat Kiri.
Kiri was over 15 years old, so I already knew she'd die sooner or later.
Saya wasn't that old, so I didn't worry about her.
When Saya died, it came out of nowhere and it hit me so hard.

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A world of fragile things
Look for me in the white forest
Hiding in a hollow tree (come find me)
I know you hear me,
I can taste it in your tears."



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 Post subject: Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Mar 16th, '20, 23:15    


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LittleJulez wrote:What do you mean with 'traditionally'? :)
I mean traditional publishing, with a publisher as opposed to self-publishing. With a publisher, they giv eyou a deadline. And it's not exactly great to start writing a book two weeks before the deadline XD That's what I fear would happen. But with self-pub there's a lot going on and I'm not sure if I'd be able to handle all that.
But it's a story for a few years from now I guess.


I have control issues. If I can't control or predict something, I stress out, a lot. I feel you.

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 Post subject: Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Mar 17th, '20, 00:54    


Moi

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I have control issues. I'm always told what to do and what to say and how to act and what to think...So I love when I control things.

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 Post subject: Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Mar 17th, '20, 09:39    


LittleJulez

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I wouldn't say I have control issue, but I like being in control or to share the responsibility with a person I trust. And I am good at it :D

mem,
Aaah that's what you meant, obviously it's harder to publish by yourself only :qhehe:

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 Post subject: Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Mar 17th, '20, 19:23    


memoriam

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I just like it when the situation is clear and predctable. I hate surprises. Today I was surprised on a call at work. Wasn't nice. Almost shat my pants from the stress. :qoops:

Responsibility isn't for me, especially with things I don't care about. If I care, put me in charge, if I don't, give it to soembody else cause I'm gonna maybe do it well, but it'll ruin me stress-wise.

Yeah, but it's supposedly worth it if done right. You have control over everything, so you're responsible for everything (either your success or failure, but even that sometimes can be just bad luck on your side) but the major upside is the money. In self-publishing you get all the money instead of something silly in traditional publishing. It depends on what the author's okay with and what they expect.

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Dec 7th 2019, R.I.P. Candy. I'm sorry, my sweet little rumball...
Jan 8th 2020, R.I.P. Cotton. Farewell my golden adventurer </3
May 15th 2021, R.I.P. Kreska. I love you, angel...
Feb 3rd 2022, R.I.P. Kropka. Goodbye, my *starshine*
Nov 27th 2022, R.I.P. Strzałka. You will be missed, lazy ball.
Jan 5th 2023, R.I.P. Iskra. Spark until the end.
Jan 26th 2024, R.I.P. Mocha. You can fool around now, baby <3
Feb 22nd 2024, R.I.P. Latte. Now you are truly a free spirit...
May 29th 2025, R.I.P. Ścieżka. The toughest fighter. We miss you dearly.


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 Post subject: Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Mar 17th, '20, 20:30    


Moi

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You know, I rarely show facial expressions in real life.
My therapist told me he thinks I do that so people can't read me.
But I hate it when I can't read people xD

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I can taste it in your tears."



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