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Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Apr 10th, '20, 15:57
by jacobgrey
Therapy is a good step, though, even if it makes you feel bad at first
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Apr 10th, '20, 23:58
by Eva
*hugs mem* My husband is getting an appointment soon but for now he's been given something to help him sleep since he hasn't been, life is topsy turvy.
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Apr 11th, '20, 09:54
by LittleJulez
Ok, gotta catch up a bit on everything xD
Tap water - yes, my parents are also like "why don't you buy water?" and they also buy water, but not the bubbly one, the still one. I am always like "Mum, your water is amazing" (it is, they did this test 2 years and we have the purest water in the region, without a doubt). Ugh. The water where I live is a bit... ew though. Because there is a lot of chalk in the soil. But one gets used to it, it's still drinkable :D
scales - agreed! As long as I exercise and feel comfortable with my body I see no need in scales. At first I was very devastated because I started to exercise a lot and put on some weight.. :D Yea lucky I had friends who know something about health and fitness and such :D
jacob, welcome back :D
That sounds horrible, the bunny kicking the other one to death :o
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Apr 11th, '20, 15:39
by jacobgrey
@julez apparently it just happens, they were both on heat with no male bunnies around so they got all aggressive.
You guys remember my annoying upstairs neighbours who let their kids bang on the floor all the time? They just brought home a new baby
They don't even look after the current 2 and they live in a tiny 2bed flat. Who thought this was a good idea? Also, even though we should all be on lockdown, it sounds like they have a couple of friends who came with them to install safety stuff on the balcony and stay a couple of days. Never mind the fact they already had 2 really young kids and didn't think to make the balcony safe before
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Apr 11th, '20, 21:06
by Moi
>XD
You know, my dad and his ex used to live on the bottom part of this house and there were renters about them.
The kids would be making noise all day and all night.
Like 3 AM - kids making noise.
Why do the kids never sleep?
Who knows \u8/
I had a bad dream and couldn't wake up until it ended Bu
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Apr 11th, '20, 23:17
by memoriam
I'm already in psychotherapy, I didn't make an appointment with a psychiatrist to start therapy, I wanted to consult some things that I've been experiencing, but then she was like "but did you immediately apologize for your behavior?" it really isn't the point whether I apologized immediately, later on or not at all, the behavior itself was the issue, bitch why are you focusing on stuff that don't matter anymore?
She was asking me about details of a conversation I had years ago even though I previously told her I have some memory issues. But no, what did you tell him then? Did you react at all? What was your tone? Did you say something or just thought it? Bitch I DON'T REMEMBER.
And then, at the end she asks if my partner is planning on proposing. I did not mention any relationship issues. At all. So when I tell her it most likely won't happen for a few years she starts preaching about guys being motivated to marry if they don't get sex before marriage. Like wtf, I literally didn't say we had any issues, didn't mention marriage or kids or even religion. I told her we're together for 10 years, living together for a few years already so we're practically married. She asks if I'm a believer, I tell her no and she lets out a deflated "Oh." Yeah, bitch, oh, nobody asked you. I'm not even going to get into why sex is the worst reason why anybody should want to marry anyone.
Basically she was insensitively triggering my traumas with my sister and her husband, although I'm sure she didn't mean to do that. Still insensitive tho. Or at least wasn't what I expected.
So I'm kind of re-traumatised and pissed. She wasn't completely bad but there were some things that seriously threw me off.
She did prescribe some soft antidepressant. And even gave me a leave from work but *drumroll please* I completely lost memory of from when and till when, and the system at my work still didn't get the info, so I'm not sure when I'm supposed to go back and even better, I'm not sure whether I'm even on leave immediately or maybe since Tuesday or something. I texted her to find out but she didn't respond. Next day I called to that medical center but apparently no psychiatrist was working on Friday so yeah... Fun, huh?
But there's also some good news. Ash and I are moving tomorrow to the new place we just rented. No more quarantine with grandma's prayers, TV and other annoyance

Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Apr 11th, '20, 23:49
by Moi
Its been a while since I've seen a psychiatrist, but I don't remember mine doing anything like that o_O
My psychologist doesn't do it either >>
I mean, I've never showed interest anything like that, but it still seemed intrusive u8
OH MY GOD SHE WAS A GHOST UB
Yay x3
I hope you guys enjoy your new place and freedom 8u/
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Apr 12th, '20, 00:32
by Sunlight
Medical professionals who don't listen to their patients are the worst. I hope you can change your therapist.
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Apr 12th, '20, 01:35
by Moi
You know, it didn't dawn on me until after I posted...There are psychiatrists that are Christian ones. So they're biased.
Zia, you remember Mouse? He was gay, you know. He told me his parents took him to a Christian psychiatrist to fix him xD
My psychiatrist was nice. He was obviously Christian because of the decor in his office, but he never screwed with me. And I was seeing him because of my religious breakdown.
He'd listen to me talk, change my medicine then send me on my way.
My psychologists did it too and I still see one of them and he's so nice to me and listens.
I know they have to bring stuff up you had issues with to help you, but it just seemed like she was picking at things, you know?
The one Mem saw 8u
Re: ⁂*ℭonfetti ℜain*⁂
Posted: Apr 12th, '20, 08:57
by LittleJulez
I see jacob :D I guess you never had bunnies after that? :D
mem, that sounds not like a pleasant experience. Will you see her again? Or are you gonna switch or see none at all?
Oh wow, confetti rain for the new place!!!