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Re: ⁂＊ℭonfetti ℜain＊⁂
Posted: Aug 20th, '20, 01:30
by Moi
Yeah, it seems so.
My dad's ex used to have migraines all the time.
I used to watch this medical show and I don't remember the name, but it was like mystery medical issues and most of the time were solved because of neurology.
I remember this one woman having a lot of migraines and she thought she would never know a life without them.
No, my family is pretty inconsiderate.
Like this past Christmas, I was really sick.
I don't know if it was a cold or the flu, but I was so sick and tired that I just stayed in bed and slept.
But apparently that made me a lazy, selfish bitch and my family yelled at me for not getting out of bed and helping them random shit around the house.
And when I had some kind of horrible stomach problems, my mom acted like I asked her to cure me of cancer when I asked her to get me some stomach medicine.
Then she bitched at me for not making it to the toilet when I threw up.
Keep in mind, I was running to the toilet and tried hard not to puke everywhere.
I honestly believe they'd cuss me out and ask me to do stuff if I was dying from cancer xD
Re: ⁂＊ℭonfetti ℜain＊⁂
Posted: Aug 20th, '20, 07:44
by Lady River
your family sounds somewhat abusive...
Re: ⁂＊ℭonfetti ℜain＊⁂
Posted: Aug 20th, '20, 16:59
by memoriam
Somewhat abusive is a HUGE understatement here
How do you even deal with it? That's no environment for anybody. Do they treat your sister the same? Or any other family member? Or you're the special one who has been chosen to be the scapegoat?
Eyy, do you guys also get logged out of my hangout whenever you post here? Because it's hella annoying.
Re: ⁂＊ℭonfetti ℜain＊⁂
Posted: Aug 20th, '20, 20:52
by Moi
Yeah, pretty much me.
My mom freaks out when my sister is sick, but my sister is way younger than me.
I remember asking my mom if she cares about me when I'm sick because she overreacts to my sister being sick and she snaps at me when I'm sick.
Re: ⁂＊ℭonfetti ℜain＊⁂
Posted: Aug 20th, '20, 21:39
by memoriam
I mean... You're her daughter, she should care no matter how old you are... I know she'll pay hella more attention to her youngest but jeez, that's not okay.
And what did she say when you asked her that?
Re: ⁂＊ℭonfetti ℜain＊⁂
Posted: Aug 21st, '20, 01:29
by Moi
She said she cares the same amount xD
But doesn't feel like it.
Like when someone else is sick, I try to be nice and helpful as much as I can.
When someone is sleeping, I try to be as quiet as possible.
But apparently no one else in my family is like that \8u/
Re: ⁂＊ℭonfetti ℜain＊⁂
Posted: Aug 21st, '20, 13:09
by Lady River
I didnt want to say a lot abusive.. i thought i could be reading into it wrongly
Re: ⁂＊ℭonfetti ℜain＊⁂
Posted: Aug 22nd, '20, 00:06
by memoriam
@Moi: I'm super sorry she doesn't seem to care about you as much.
Oh yeah, and when you stop acting polite and start acting like them, they say you're the bad guy... Yeah, sounds familiar...
@River: You're right, I'm quick to judge in such cases. But also, I feel it's good to speak up. So, hehe Libra much.
Re: ⁂＊ℭonfetti ℜain＊⁂
Posted: Aug 24th, '20, 22:01
by Moi
I remember it being really hot one day and my back was killing me and my sister wanted some sno-cones so my aunt said we should WALK to the sno-cone place.
I said no because it was hot and my back hurt, so everyone called me selfish and "We'll do that next time she asks us for something!"
My aunt could have DROVE my sister there. In a vehicle with nice AC.
But because I was in pain and it was like 100 degrees outside and didn't want to walk, I was a selfish bitch.
Re: ⁂＊ℭonfetti ℜain＊⁂
Posted: Aug 25th, '20, 23:25
by memoriam
Wow, that's so unfair! I don't even know what to say, I'm sorry you have to deal with it
Do any of you sometimes have troubling figuring out why the hell you're feeling what you're feeling? Like, I'm pissed today and I have no idea why. It's not pms. I'm tired of my emotions being out of whack
On a lighter note, I started a new course about becoming a publisher. It was a last minute decision... I REALLY hope this thing won't overwhelm me, because I still have some webinars to watch from my previous course and keep on working on other stuff and then there's work and... I'm beginning to understand why I might be pissed but on the other hand, I'd be lying belly up all day if I didn't do all those things and nothing would change and I'd be like my mom or dad, always complaining about their lives and blaming everyone around for it but themselves.