Quite frankly, Aki, it's none of your business I'm not trying to be rude or anything, but it really is none of your business.

@ Zia: Hopefully your friend doesn't have to deal with the kind of people I do whenever someone irl finds out how dangerous it is for me. "Have a child anyway, it's your DUTY as a women to pop out many children!"

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Shouldn't listen to those kind of people. It's your life, do what you want with it.

Also, I think Aki just wanted different examples of diseases that could make it dangerous for someone to get pregnant, not necessarily your own illness. owo
But yea, you don't have to say if you don't want to. That's what google is for if anyone wants examples. u:

Oh, I feel some of that pain there... I don't have the health issues preventing pregnancy, though, so because my little cousins are popping out babies left and right (about 5 in the last 6 years), everyone's looking to me now, demanding to know why I'm not married and popping out kids yet, and declaring me as basically a failure in life. Because it's my choice, they decide my mind can be changed, and I'm just being silly/going through a phase, or something...

Life doesn't revolve around babies, and a woman isn't less of one because she can't/won't have a child. I'm sorry to hear about the crap you have to go through. Maybe just tell them you're infertile or something? *shrugs* just to make them shut up? Either way, I hope people leave you alone about it soon...

I keep wanting then not wanting them. Overall I don't want them and I'd much rather adopt a kid than have my own.
Ah, babies.

Well gee, thanks for calling me a liar for knowing my own body better than someone who's never even met me... This is why I don't tell anyone anything about any issues I have. Someone shouldn't state something about themselves, and immediately have someone else jump down their throat like that.

Also, I doubt a Google search would turn up anything, since my issue is a combination of complications, rather than one specific problem. Basically, my body is physically INCAPABLE of sustaining life for as long as a pregnancy takes (it can barely even sustain my own life). I'd be lucky if a miscarriage was the only result of a pregnancy.

No one should be afraid of saying "I don't want any dang kids!!"

You're right about that, no one should be afraid of saying that. However, too many people are under the mindset that women should be nothing more than incubators.