Kingdom of Knuffel

LOL I'm just really self-conscious about my stomach -its so big and flabby/bloated-
I have to eat right to lower that part- But during stress time I eat way too much salty snacks ><

And yea! I do wanna be 57kg (~125) cause that's my "healthy" weight zone compared with my height.

But yea I think you can wear a bikini now too!

I'm on a prescripted diet myself and am having trouble, so if you have any tips, pray tell...
I'm glad you had a nice day after all!

And yes, anybody can wear whatever they want... But I really don't feel at ease in a bikini as I'm obese and very self conscious about it...


It doesn't help that my entire family is obese (I'm one of the lesser cases) but somehow they only keep telling me to lose weight (because I don't wear the latest fashion, the others do (all those pants three sizes too small are ok, but a flattering dress that hides my layers isn't and requires people to tell me I need to lose weight quickly? Srsly?) when they're the ones eating whatever they want and I gain weight from just going against my diet a little bit...
I'm very much an emotional eater, so they're really not helping my case there...


sorry I went on a bit of a rant there. But thanks to family I'm having even more trouble sticking to my diet and it's annoying me to no end, but they're some of the few people I still allow to get close to me and that really hurts. Especially if you know that they're even bigger than I am. I'm just not fashionable or small (cuddly cute looking) or capable of wearing make-up (and yes. Those things are considered important by them and reading and liking other languages or learning stuff and such is considered weird so I'm the black sheep of the family)


sorry... ranting.... will stop now...

I always had an okay weight, not too much, but not exactly skinny. Then a few years ago I gained a lot of weight (and health issues) due to meds. Sadly, stopping them did not allow me to lose the weight they helped put on... So I dunno. That combined with the emotional eating finally made me obese and now I decided to go on a diet and save my health.
Something the rest of my family should consider (they keep complaining their doctors tell them to, but consider it unnecessary, my doctor only prescribed it when I mentioned wanting to try and improve my health and it's the same doctor... And they have the nerve to tell me I'm worse)

I'm glad you lost that weight, though make sure not to tax your body too much. that much weightloss in a brief period can be a bit dangerous depending on how you eat during the weightloss...