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Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Apr 25th, '17, 20:44
by Kitalpha Hart
I haven't had any of those either
Hey I don't need to be an author to know shitty writing
I don't need to be a musician to know your signature sucks
I don't need to be an artist to know that mud pile isn't art
I don't need to be a parent to know that you're raising a spoiled rotten shit who will likely end up in jail because they never learned no
Yeah, you're one who would've been fine without, but you're happy with as well, candy
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Apr 25th, '17, 21:40
by Death Candy
Yep. She's not perfect she can be a brat, but when I tell her it's no, it's no. I don't try to let her be a spoiled brat. And when she's upset we talk it out.
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Apr 25th, '17, 22:13
by Moi
Kit: EXACTLY xD
DC: My bestie is the same as you and as Kit put it u8
She loves her little boy so much and he has brought so much needed happiness to her.
My parents were far from perfect, but I think they did a good job. I turned out okay.
Except for the crippling anxiety.
:U
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Apr 25th, '17, 22:39
by Death Candy
I'm not trying to sway anyone into being a parent. For me it's happiness.
Sometimes I wanna stuff her in a box and ship her to Abu Dhabi. lol But that's probably a lot of parents.
I turned out okay except for the depression. But I don't blame my parents for it. It was school for me. Especially my six grade English teach, who was a massive bitch and bully.
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Apr 25th, '17, 23:11
by Kitalpha Hart
See, you're one of the parents who would be praised. And should be. Talking it out, giving her boundaries, etc, you're going good
Not perfectly, of course, no one's perfect
Those like you that I see at work I don't mind. It's the ones who raise hell that I am annoyed by
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Apr 26th, '17, 00:54
by Death Candy
Sometimes I don't feel like I'm doing good. ^^ Thanks.
Why on earth would they raise hell?
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Apr 26th, '17, 01:33
by Kitalpha Hart
The kid is trying to climb something they shouldn't be I politely ask them to get down and I'm not allowed to tell their precious baby what to do so they scream at me
That kind of bullshit
And the sad part is that the kid is 99% likely to be nice about it
It's not always the kids, unfortunately
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Apr 26th, '17, 01:35
by Death Candy
Yeah. If my kid does that I don't yell at someone telling my kid to get down. If she's climbing some where she shouldn't, she'll be lucky I don't yell at her myself. I try to always try not to yell.
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Apr 26th, '17, 02:32
by Kitalpha Hart
Yeah, if I'm at a distance, I'll yell, but that's cuz distance. If they're nearby, I'm kinda quiet
Polite either way tho
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Apr 26th, '17, 02:42
by Death Candy
Yeah distance is one thing. But sometimes I do yell when she's close by, but only in the house and usually it's because she's trying to get my attention while I'm reading something or listening to the news.