I used to sleep a lot when visiting bf. That was back in high school though, so 4 years back at least. He was just playing a game or doing some stuff on his laptop while I'd be sleeping. I don't sleep as much anymore, maybe it's the diet or Idunno.

Ugh, people getting engaged. That reminds me, last October/November (I think) bf's middle school friend (more of an acquaintance really) suddenly announced to all of us that he's getting married with his gf. And I got depressed Because their relationship was less than a year, and mine was 6 years at the time... now 6,5... still no ring... ;>_> Not that I actually need it (you don't need a ring to know you're loved), but it would be nice, y'know? I guess I'm just old fashioned >///<

Does he work a later shift? That sucks :c

Speaking of papa bear >u> Lately whenever I want to make him mad I call him 'daddy' or I say 'yes dad 8U'.

One of my best friends is getting married in October x_x but I guess 3/however many isn't that many at all. Although a lot of us have been in rather 'lengthy' relationships and by that I mean 2 years+ lol.

I mean technically I'm still in school so naps justified :3 Ehhhh, 6 months???!! That's too short. That's insane ;-; Have you talked to him about it? My bf is slightly traditional. He says there must be an engagement ring for me but I can do the proposing xD So I guess I'm putting the ring on my own finger. My bf knows from the start I'm only waiting for 5 years at most but he says we can get engaged once we both have full time jobs.

My bf knows that if I could, I would already be pregnant with his second child Or third ;>_>
I mean technically I can. But it would be irresponsible in so many ways... tbh, I don't really need to be married or even engaged to think about kids, because it's only a paper, so not really important (I'm just oldfashioned and want to take on his name and such >///< If I'd be creepy I'd just go to the civil office and change my last name to his, but I'm not that desperate XD Yet ). But he's even more oldfashioned I guess. 1) The ring must be worth at least 4 salaries of his. 2) He must be sure of me (this is the point where I'm pissed at him, almost 7 years together, half of it we live together and he wants to make sure still! ). 3) Kids only after marriage. 4) marriage only after obtaining our own place. 5) there's many things he wants to do before he has kids...
And my biological clock has been ticking for at least 2 years already I wish he was 5-8 years older than me

And I'm also not so sure I want a wedding reception. I'd probably be crucified by my family if I didn't invite my sister. And I don't want to And I don't like my family... Bf doesn't have many family members (I don't think it's more than 10, actually pretty sure it's less than that)... I don't have many friends I'd invite (count 1... Unless I fetch all of you guys XD), he has more friends, but not sure how many he'd want to actually invite...
I think a small civil wedding ceremony would suffice for us without any reception, just closest family and friends... Excluding my sister, she's not close to me anymore Bu (My grandma will kill me for that XD )

eh, one can dream of having all that issues and decisions xD Maybe it's good I don't have to worry about it yet

I've been engaged since 2012 technically.

Though we only moved in together end of last year. It was LDR before then.

LDR = long distance relationship


I have a ring, it's a bit big still for my ring finger and I think it'd feel weird on that finger anyway so it lives on my middle finger. Hell it's sometimes (depends on weather) slightly loose on the middle finger at times. But I feel weird and sad without it when I take it off.

Aw, that's a pretty long engagement No funds?

How long were you in the LDR?

You could always wear it on a chain on your neck, make it a necklace
My fingers are very thin, so it's hard to find the right size, we've checked on few occassions xD I've lost so many rings in my life because of my small fingers I think all of them were made by my dad, they were all so pretty... That's how it ends if you give something expensive to a child XD' Anyways, because of that I'd be afraid I'd lose the ring, so I think I'd feel safer if I could wear it on my neck. Bf on the other hand always mentions that he could make his into an earring (not on the earlobe though, on the upper part of the ear shell...) I think he got that idea form a book or something

well funds, not having lived together before....some uh relationship issues in the past...

Been together since 2008. 9 years now.

I would but my hand would feel weird and I can still wear it.

The conch?

Hm, okay.

wow, that's long! How did you meet?

As long as you're comfortable with it

More like helix? (Uncle Google rules xD)

I'm surprised J hasn't mentioned picking out a ring. Have you asked him? Would J want a lot of his family members to attend the reception? I want a small wedding as well. Receptions are expensive anyway =_= they're the most expensive part of the wedding. My friend is currently spending 25K on reception but the thing with 'asian' weddings is you can count of the asian people to gift you money for the wedding gift :3 Weddings aren't meant to leave you in a deficit (or as much) but because we're westernised (growing up in Australia and all), it's a bit different.

I know exactly how you feel mem. I want him to legally commit to me >8D Wahaha. Leaving me won't be so difficult now. *cough* That's so many conditions mem ;-; I'd be pissed at number 2 as well. I can understand 4, maybe not own the place but definitely be able to move out and pay for rent and stuff. That's what we're aiming for. You already live with your bf right? Even if it's with your mum (mum right? grandmum?). Whereas my condition for living together is that we marry. Mostly because my family won't respect him if we don't get married first before we move in with each other. It's your wedding though 8U invite who you want.

You can get the ring size changed for $20 from Prouds River :3 Then it'll fit you more securely.