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Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Dec 27th, '21, 21:43
by Moi

I've been wanting my mom's boyfriend to build us a cat house.
Cuz the cats are outside. Only a couple of them get to be inside because they don't tear the house up 8u
But it gets cold outside.

I've been feeling worn down myself but I'm pretty sure my tooth infection is adding to it xD

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Dec 28th, '21, 09:16
by Amura
So the nights are cold there?
If that's the case, I'm sure cats would enjoy something warmer indeed.


Sorry to here your tooth is still hurting you v_v

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Dec 29th, '21, 02:47
by Moi

Not unless the days are cold too. Weather has been cool lately but it does get cold and the cats have to sleep outside.
It can be midnight here and still be hot as hell xD

I keep getting told "Well, you should have taken care of them! You didn't listen to me! I told you over and over again!"

I get tired of telling people the reason why I didn't take care of myself.
They seem to think I'm just a moron and who chose not to listen because I thought I knew better.
That's not the case. I hated myself and wished I were dead so I didn't take care of my body.
But people don't listen to me.
Saying "I told you so!" is stupid and pisses me off.
I'm not talking about you, I'm talking about my mom and other people.
They don't listen just like always xD

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Dec 29th, '21, 05:14
by Akili Li
That's frustrating, Moi, I hope some better listeners come into your life. Sounds like you're close to your little sister, at least? I hope she's someone who supports you in your family :qh:


I had a randomly funny thought.

Maybe the reason we aren't having a "doughnight" event is because Firn got ambitious and wanted to do something new and big and grand and it got too much and so she couldn't finish in time.

I don't know how often I've shot myself in the foot like that, and it just struck me as really funny to think about other people doing the same thing.

(The really bad one was the time I finally figured out what I wanted to give my brother a week before his birthday -and then it took me 8 months to make it, and by the time I finished he'd grown so much he couldn't wear it. That was so sad. It's when I told him I wasn't making him anything else with such elaborate embroidery until he was finished growing! He's almost 40 now and I still haven't replaced it.... but then, his tastes have changed a lot since middle school.)

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Dec 29th, '21, 10:53
by Amura
Saying "I told you" never helped anybody.
But still sometimes we are so frustated we say unuseful things, or even wrong things, because our own frustation does not let us be relly supportive.
I know I do that, I wish I had not said certain things in certain moments to my son, only to realize I had better kept my mouth shut v_v



@Akili:
I dunno, I would think that by now Firn knows how much they can do for an event.
But life is complicated and it has to be the both of them (art + programming) to have an event.
If for whatever reason starkad is out of town, she can't do it on her own. So something as an unexpected work trip can wreck an event.
If you think about it, it's something very fragile.

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Dec 29th, '21, 21:47
by Moi

I feel like no one listens to me irl. I mean, they constantly interrupt me and talk over me and cut me off...If I get upset, they complain that I take too long to say something.
COULD IT BE BECAUSE I CONSTANTLY GET INTERRUPTED?
Nah, I'm just someone who talks too much and too long.
People really irk me xD

I don't know...I think we just didn't get one because something was going on.

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Dec 29th, '21, 23:55
by Amura
Yes, I agree, surely something was/is going on.
I just (want to) think it does not have to be something bad, right?
Something good can also take up so much time!

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Dec 30th, '21, 03:09
by Moi

It could be anything.
I just tend to lean more towards negative because the situation the world is in.
I mean, I've been sick with tooth infection and haven't been up to doing much so maybe they're the same.
Hopefully not sick but you know...dealing with something out of the norm u8

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Dec 30th, '21, 04:37
by Akili Li
Mmmhmm.

I will wish them well in whatever they are dealing with, regardless of its severity. And you too, Moi.
It's funny to hear so many people suddenly speak of dental issues at once. My grandfather was at a dental surgeon's today, too, but I don't know if they were able to do anything for him or not because last Saturday he had a fall and half his face is so swollen it'd be hard to work on his mouth until it heals...
My grandfather's pretty tough though, so he was in good spirits as of yesterday.

Re: [ Amura's house on a tree ]

Posted: Dec 30th, '21, 21:28
by Moi

I hope he can get it fixed soon.

I've had a tooth infection for what feels like weeks or even months now.
I got some antibiotics earlier this month and felt fine but then the infection came right back and was tearing me down. Got more antibiotics.
Was supposed to get the tooth pulled, but since the infection spread, it was possible that if they had tried to numb me - it wouldn't have worked right and I would have been in pain.
So antibiotics then hopefully extraction.
So I also have to wait 8u