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Re: *⁂* Confetti Rain *⁂*
Posted: Apr 23rd, '22, 15:19
by memoriam
@Moi: Yeah, in your case periods are truly pointless. But removing anything could potentially do more harm than good. I'm not sure.
My pms was low to non-existent the past few cycles so now with the whole stress around I'm not that surprised this time it's worse. But it's still very early, it's not until 5 days or so.
@jacob: Thank dog, you understand! Everybody tells me Wordpress is super easy and intuitive and I believed them and now I feel stupid xD
I contacted support of my hosting yesterday because I couldn't see or preview my website at all. the guyu was really nice and solved the problem in a snap (I'm not sure if that's an expression but oh well).
Do you happen to know if I can just create the website from scratch, without any theme installed? I can't figure out these themes, each one has a different manual...
Re: *⁂* Confetti Rain *⁂*
Posted: Apr 23rd, '22, 21:27
by Moi
Yeah, that's what people say...
I just really hate going through the pain and suffering for no reason.
It's like living your life with a shard of glass in your foot and you just won't remove it.
Re: *⁂* Confetti Rain *⁂*
Posted: Apr 23rd, '22, 22:27
by memoriam
Yeah, but a shard of glass might leave a scar and the wound get infected at worst case scenario, but removing a whole organ is more complicated and drags more complications, like hormonal imbalance and higher sensitivity to some diseases or other health problems.
My late grandma has had her ovaries removed and herhealth was going downhill from then on...
So I think the pain is worth it
Re: *⁂* Confetti Rain *⁂*
Posted: Apr 24th, '22, 01:46
by Moi
My point was you shouldn't have to live with a shard of glass in your foot when it serves no purpose 8u
Re: *⁂* Confetti Rain *⁂*
Posted: Apr 24th, '22, 08:27
by jacobgrey
Mem: unfortunately I think you can't do it without a template unless you upgrade to one of the higher level subscriptions. And then you have to have enough knowledge of coding to do the entire thing yourself without a template at all I mean, Wordpress is easy compared to some other hosting sites I've seen. And I guess it gets more easy if you just ask support every time XD XD
@moi: I guess the correct thing would be to not have the shard of glass in the first place, right? then no complications from removing it XD
Imagine if we were like frogs and we could just decide "welp, I'm a boy today" XD
I would do that every single time my period was due: oop, no, sorry, can't have a period this week because I'm a boy. Oh it's been a week? Look at that, I'm a girl again! hahaha
Re: *⁂* Confetti Rain *⁂*
Posted: Apr 24th, '22, 21:08
by memoriam
@Moi: I get that, but I just think the shard of glass is not the best example
for all women it serves some purpose, even if it's just hormonal balance. Appendix might be a better example.
@jacob: that's what I thought
I'll manage somehow. Hopefully. Pray for me, lol.
Re: *⁂* Confetti Rain *⁂*
Posted: Apr 24th, '22, 21:28
by Moi
I have interesting thoughts about myself sometimes.
It's more of like...I'm nothing.
Not a man and I don't like being called a woman.
I'm just me.
I don't want to have sex organs, I don't want to be in a relationship, I don't want kids...
It's a feeling that's hard to explain u8
Re: *⁂* Confetti Rain *⁂*
Posted: Apr 24th, '22, 21:50
by memoriam
So you feel more like you're genderless asexual? Maybe?
Re: *⁂* Confetti Rain *⁂*
Posted: Apr 25th, '22, 02:20
by Moi
I wouldn't say that I'm genderless, it's just that...
When I hear "You're a grown woman!" I just hate it.
I hate being called a WOMAN and being called MA'AM.
I feel like a girl but don't like being called a woman xD
Re: *⁂* Confetti Rain *⁂*
Posted: Apr 25th, '22, 06:12
by HanafuruLove
Gender can be a tough one. I think as a society we've only sort of just started to figured out how all of that actually works, so we're still lacking the right words to describe certain things. I think it's fine to just say you aren't comfortable with "woman". You don't owe anyone a specific label if you don't have one for yourself.
I had a hell of a time in high school trying to navigate gender. I was putting on dresses and then like an hour later looking in the mirror like "I am a man in a dress", and then like cutting my hair short and wearing ties, then breaking down bawling like "I don't want to look like a man! I want to be pretty!". I think my friends had no idea what to do with me. I had no idea what to do with me. It took like 6 years to figure out the DID was doing it. Male alters were coming and freaking out about being a woman, and then they'd just leave and the feeling would magically go away <.<
So now I can be at peace with being a cis woman, and the other parts of my brain have their gender-related crises all on their own without involving me
. Stay strong, Brain Parts.