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Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Apr 20th, '21, 01:57
by Moi

I'm wishing you happiness and energy, Tam \8u/

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Apr 21st, '21, 01:25
by Tam I am
Thanks.

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Apr 23rd, '21, 21:34
by Rayven
The funeral was today. I'm exhausted from crying but hopefully, things can kind of go back to normal. My dad was a jerk today of all days. :mcargh: Then he didn't go to the funeral like he was the hurt party. *rolls eyes*




Moi-That would scare me. Although, I've kind of been hoping to see my neighbor friend that just passed. I liked this certain flower that was in the spray on his casket today and a piece of it broke off at the burial site when the funeral director walked past it. I was planning on taking it anyway but his daughter-in-law asked me if I wanted a flower. I think it was meant for me. *sad smile* Also, when I was saying goodbye in my head a little blast of wind hit me in my face. It kind of felt like he was saying goodbye too.

I know what you mean. And even if it's true, telling someone that rarely helps. Awww. *hugs* I probably do that too. XD

That is sad. :qcry: I'm sorry to hear that but I'm glad he helped your sister.

XD

Sounds like my Casper. He has this habit of wanting petted and then going to eat a few bites and then wanting petted again. Repeat like..4 times. He's like, Pet me. I'm a good cat because I ate my food. XD No wonder he's fat. *shakes head*


It's a different day. LOL

That's a genius idea! :qg: :qh: If only I could. XD


Thanks. I cried a lot earlier this week but then I told myself he wouldn't want me to be miserable. Then I started crying again at the funeral today. :qoops: Everyone always thinks I'm having a nervous breakdown when I cry. O.o

How are you doing? Anything interesting going on?













Tam-*hugs* I understand. I've not been myself either. I hope you feel better soon. :qh:

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Apr 23rd, '21, 23:11
by Tam I am
*hugs for Rayven* *and for Moi*

I think it's just period brain. I hope it is. I really don't want to be this kind of self pitying *girl dog* all the time.

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Apr 24th, '21, 06:57
by Moi

Rayven: I'm sorry about that :\
At least he's at peace now.
I remember when my grandpa was dying, I got to a point where I stopped praying he'd make it and just prayed for him to be at peace.

It may be that you see him again. I didn't see my grandpa until like...2 years after he died. He was a nice man, but had his flaws and I worried that he wouldn't make it to heaven. One night I was walking past the kitchen and I saw his ghost standing there, smiling at me. And he was gone. Scared the hell out of me u8
But I know now that he was letting me know he was okay.

My mom always says that stuff - "It doesn't kill people to smile! Why do people not smile!? Life's not that bad!"
And I'm just like >_____>


I remember we were waiting for him for like 6 hours at the hospital and he came in with some small cakes and was like "Peace offering 8D;"


Aww that's cute xD
My Kiri would refuse to drink old water.
Eventhough it was like a few hours old.
I always told her "It'd break my heart if I came home and found you dead from dehydration because you refused to drink your water Bu"


Uh, crying when you're sad is normal u8
A lot of people frown on crying and I don't know why.
When I'd cry, I'd get yelled at for it - get told I had no reason to cry.

No, not really. Been feeling kinda meh.

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Apr 25th, '21, 01:41
by Tam I am
Smiling can hurt! I've gotten headaches from it.

*hugs for everyone* I'm still in grouchy mode, I wish this period would go die forever.

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Apr 25th, '21, 01:55
by Moi

It can die forever in a fire >8u/
-hugs-

I always hear "It take more muscles to frown than to smile!"
How? My face is resting. How is that using more muscles than using muscles Bu

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Apr 25th, '21, 17:54
by Tam I am
So long as I don't have to feel the fire. I've been having enough hot flashes. XD

I think it's another of those thoughtless generalizations, like FIBRE IS GOOD FOR YOU.

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Apr 25th, '21, 20:44
by Moi

Well, yeah that wouldn't be good u8

>XD
I thought you said FIRE IS GOOD FOR YOU.
I was like....but didn't we just say being in fire is bad uB

Re: Rayven's Nest-Everyone welcome!

Posted: Apr 27th, '21, 01:18
by Tam I am
LMBO! *hug*