Akili Li wrote:I mean, it is a very very common thing in my family to enter a quiet house, wondering if anyone is home, walk into the living room and see six people all quietly curled up on a cushion or sprawled out on the floor or cuddled up together on the couch or perched sideways in a chair and they're all reading their own books. And that's "being social" for our family (except for that one sister who's an extrovert. Everyone else does this and considers their social duties done for the week).
We do that too!
Well, we are only two adults and a kid, but as a couple we've been doing this since the beginning and as parents we enjoy the luxury of having a young reader.
Sometimes he wants to be read aloud though. But he's still young.
In college I had a roommate (and classmate and friend) who did this too.
People were surprised we did not own a TV.
We could sit in the evening on the coach, each with her own book, sometimes remarking something but mostly in silence.