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Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Sep 7th, '18, 14:01
by light_sucks
Ah. Well I wouldn't think trans goes there? Since it's a gender identity. Someone who is trans could be asexual. They just identify with a different gender than they were assigned with. Not a sexual thing. I would think the same for non binary and agender people too? Not necessarily a sexual orientation. More a gender one. Not positive though.
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Sep 7th, '18, 18:45
by Dearest
yeah, gender and sexuality don't necessarily overlap, nor do they necessarily determine or influence each other. i'm sure there are people for whom they do (as in for them personally). but it's not intrinsic to gender and sexuality. more a matter of chance. like it just so happens.
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Sep 7th, '18, 23:35
by Kitalpha Hart
So the gender identities fall where they fall, then
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Sep 7th, '18, 23:59
by Death Candy
Kitalpha Hart wrote:AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
So if you'd given a rating it would've been 0/10 sleep would've been better
Yes.
@light: Yep, sex once and got pregnant. Oh well I got a beautiful girl out of it.
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Sep 8th, '18, 04:57
by light_sucks
I don't know why people stuff them together. It's weird.
What's everyone doing?
I am waiting for my husband to come home. And bring me coffee. Yaaaay. I love coffee.
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Sep 8th, '18, 05:21
by Kitalpha Hart
I'm about to go do a card reading
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Sep 8th, '18, 06:56
by MissNikki
light_sucks wrote:I don't know why people stuff them together. It's weird.
What's everyone doing?
I am waiting for my husband to come home. And bring me coffee. Yaaaay. I love coffee.
I am watching Bill Mahr and trying to relax but I feel guilty like I should be doing some more packing but I was working all day and am tired.
I dislike all the labels regarding the sex stuff - why can't people just live how they want to live without having to label it?
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Sep 8th, '18, 07:07
by Kitalpha Hart
Because without a label, how can one know that it exists?
There's a comfort in knowing that there's a name for it, that you're not alone
Especially when your orientation is less known, to where people don't believe it exists, and belittle you because it does
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Sep 9th, '18, 05:30
by MissNikki
Kitalpha Hart wrote:Because without a label, how can one know that it exists?
There's a comfort in knowing that there's a name for it, that you're not alone
Especially when your orientation is less known, to where people don't believe it exists, and belittle you because it does
Understandable. I support whatever kind of life someone wants to live as long as they don't cause harm to others. 
Re: Feather's Hangout!
Posted: Sep 9th, '18, 08:44
by Kitalpha Hart
Without labels, how can you be 100% sure that's truly a jar of m&ms, no reese's pieces or skittles mixed in >:3
Forcing labels on someone is bad
A person choosing to use labels for themselves is not
Forcing people to not use labels is also bad
A person choosing to not use labels for themselves is not