I think I used to be more wary of new people, but the older I get the more I spill at a very early stage xD It might be because I tend to enjoy deep conversations than all the silly small talk. Who cares about the weather or jobs? Let's tell each other our traumas and bond over them
I know it's ridiculous, haha.
Hotarla wrote:I’m sure you’ll find the right time. After all, you just met so its good to take it slow sometimes.
Maybe there will be time over the next few meetings. Unless he's all about the panties business and once I don't allow him anything on Saturday he'll lose interest
Good riddance then. But I really like him so hopefully he's genuine.
Amura wrote:Awww, that's so lovely, mem!!!
And the pace for this sort of thing is never too fast, imho. I mean, it can be too fast if one the persons involved is pushy. That's plain wrong.
But if you both are feeling the rush of adreline (or whatever it is) which makes you want to spend time with each other, and move forward in your relation, I think that's perfect - just perfect, neither too fast nor too slow.
Time will tell, but right now I'm so glad to see (read!) you so happy and hopeful and excited
As mentioned above, I often don't have the filter XD I don't want to scare him away, though.
Or to hurt myself by giving him too much too soon.
On the other hand, I would hate to waste his time if he's not okay with certain stuff. For example his deal breaker might be that I'm friends with my ex. So far he knows I have a male friend and he already doesn't believe in that kind of friendship being completely pure and aromantic (though he said he would try to not be toxic about it if his girlfriend had this kind of friendship). That's what I'm worried about, because I'm not willing to skip Ash from my life. So I'd like to ask him about it. I have some ideas how to break it to him, because I wouldn't want to lie to my partner (although it's only been two dates so far, it's a bit crazy to think about a relationship already).
I'm also curious about what he'll think of me being in only one relationship and for 11,5 years
That's a lot.
So, I have stuff to worry about when it comes to finding a new (and preferably forever) partner
Oh, and we've decided to watch the Fullmetal Alchemist. I've never seen it, he has but it was a long time ago and he'd like to refresh his memory. It was funny, because we agreed to come up with at least 5 shows to watch and Fullmetal was the one that we both had on our lists