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Re: ♡ Kowai Desu ♡ (Everyone Is Welcome!)
Posted: Apr 22nd, '22, 21:15
by Hotarla
YEAH THAT ONE. He’s my mom’s cousin, from her aunt’s side, so my grandaunt. I was doing some family tree searching and he’s technically my first cousin once removed. His kids would technically be my second cousins.
https://www.familysearch.org/en/blog/cousin-chart
There’s the family tree on cousins. Its where the first removed whatevers come from. 8U
Re: ♡ Kowai Desu ♡ (Everyone Is Welcome!)
Posted: Apr 22nd, '22, 21:26
by Demonskid
Hotarla: that is so confusing! Dxwho comes up with this crap!?!
Moi: -does caramell dansen dance for moi to inspire her so she wouldn't have to force herself-
I should try and redo that =w= hehe its OLD arts
Re: ♡ Kowai Desu ♡ (Everyone Is Welcome!)
Posted: Apr 22nd, '22, 22:16
by Hotarla
Yeahh i dunno lool, personally i just call them by the chinese term for them…xD;; i don’t bother with all this “removed” stuff lol. XD
Re: ♡ Kowai Desu ♡ (Everyone Is Welcome!)
Posted: Apr 22nd, '22, 22:20
by Amura
Here we use an expression such as "cousin by blood" and all the rest are just "cousins".
For example, a second cousin once removed we just call him a cousin.
That's why we have soooooo many cousins xD
Re: ♡ Kowai Desu ♡ (Everyone Is Welcome!)
Posted: Apr 22nd, '22, 22:26
by Demonskid
I'm g oing with amura's thing!!! OnO
I don't even know of any of those distant cousins so... yea =w= they're prolly dead
Re: ♡ Kowai Desu ♡ (Everyone Is Welcome!)
Posted: Apr 22nd, '22, 22:33
by Hotarla
Oh i suppose that’s something too. Although, really, with cousins in my generation, i either call them by name or, if they’re older, i call them “older sister/brother”. Its called “biao jie/biao ge”….biao jie is the older female cousin, biao ge is the older male cousin.
Re: ♡ Kowai Desu ♡ (Everyone Is Welcome!)
Posted: Apr 22nd, '22, 22:34
by Amura
Cousin is just a label after all.
I remember this friend of mine started dating a guy.
We met once and started talking "oh, where are you from? ah, my mom's family is from there..." until we realized we were cousin.
His father and my mother were second cousins I think, they knew each other well, so we probably had met as kids - but none remembered the other at all!
And my brother has a cousin who is not my cousin xD
Re: ♡ Kowai Desu ♡ (Everyone Is Welcome!)
Posted: Apr 22nd, '22, 22:44
by Hotarla
Yeah its just a label. I don’t really bother with the english equivalents because i’ve always only known them by their chinese ones. XD like my older cousins, if i directly translate them, ge and jie mean older brother and older sister. XD
Re: ♡ Kowai Desu ♡ (Everyone Is Welcome!)
Posted: Apr 22nd, '22, 22:46
by Demonskid
I don't talk to my cousins (or family other than when my aunts force me to) so I don't pay attention to the cousin thing... they're just more strangers to me o3o
Re: ♡ Kowai Desu ♡ (Everyone Is Welcome!)
Posted: Apr 23rd, '22, 01:46
by Moi
DK, that'd make a cute chibi...Your OC inspires me so much u8<
You've mentioned the complication of calling family members what before, Hotarla.
Unless I dreamed it but I don't think so.
My mom always tells me "You remember your cousin ___!"
No >Bu
My last name is Mendoza so any time someone sees a person with that name, they assume we're related.
I told my dad about it and he said there's not many of us left.
That's sad...
He and my mom have expressed disappointment in me not wanting to have kids.
Makes me feel bad.