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 Post subject: Re: Kat's Crumpet Collective
Posted: Nov 30th, '19, 13:43    


Kitalpha Hart

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I had my three foot tall cat-person bite someone's middle finger while they were on a roller coaster in an rp earlier
They flipped the camera off and this was my response

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 Post subject: Re: Kat's Crumpet Collective
Posted: Dec 1st, '19, 01:20    


memoriam

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I'd say joking in the moments of misery is actually one of the healthiest ways to deal with difficult stuff.

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 Post subject: Re: Kat's Crumpet Collective
Posted: Dec 1st, '19, 02:53    


Moi

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Kit: That reminds me of my mom breaking my dad's middle finger. He kept waving it in her face and she told him to stop, but he kept doing it so she broke his finger xD
All these years later, he's still like "Your mom broke my finger >8U" and she said "Well, he wouldn't stop waving it in my face so I broke it >BU"

I think it's perfectly fine to do it - which is why it makes me sad that people get pissed off at it.
People that know me, know how I am and we do it back and forth to each other.
Like if my bestie has a bad day, I make a joke out of it to make her laugh or I joke with her so she doesn't feel as bad.

I also have this thing where I want to laugh hysterically sometimes.
Like if I get into an argument, instead of screaming - I want to laugh.
Or if I'm really upset because someone died or someone got hurt, instead of crying - I want to laugh.
I feel the laughter building up inside me and it tickles, but I don't do it.
Because people would find it weird and I don't want their attention on me.
But could you imagine arguing with someone and just "HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!"
That's even weird to me u8
My point being that laughter doesn't always mean joy and happiness.

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 Post subject: Re: Kat's Crumpet Collective
Posted: Dec 1st, '19, 17:25    


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 Post subject: Re: Kat's Crumpet Collective
Posted: Dec 1st, '19, 20:27    


memoriam

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Moi wrote:I also have this thing where I want to laugh hysterically sometimes.
Like if I get into an argument, instead of screaming - I want to laugh.
Or if I'm really upset because someone died or someone got hurt, instead of crying - I want to laugh.
I feel the laughter building up inside me and it tickles, but I don't do it.
Because people would find it weird and I don't want their attention on me.
But could you imagine arguing with someone and just "HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!"
That's even weird to me u8
My point being that laughter doesn't always mean joy and happiness.
Well that just reminds me of the Joker from this year's movie XD I mean no offense, of course. He had this weird laughter unrelated to his mood. I guess it would be frowned upon to burst out like that, but on the other hand, if someone deals with stuff this way, then I'd rather they laughed then went on an agressive rampage and take it out on somebody.

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 Post subject: Re: Kat's Crumpet Collective
Posted: Dec 1st, '19, 22:02    


Moi

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That's kind of a compliment, I guess xD
It's really interesting, though.
I didn't start feeling like that until recent years.
Like yeah, I'd laugh as a response, but not want to just go "HAHAHAHAHAHA!!" o_O

Example:

Person: You're a stupid bitch!
Me: Yeah, well, so are you!
Person: Don't talk to me like that!
Me: Don't talk to ME like that! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!

Me: My cat died and I'm so fucking sad and in so much pain...HAHAHAHAHA!!

One big thing I remember doing when I was younger, was if my mom lost her keys or something similar - I'd smile and laugh.
She'd then decide I took her keys and hid them because I was smiling and laughing.
But I didn't do anything. My reaction was just smile and laugh. Which made me look guilty.
I had never met anyone else that did that until I met this person on DeviantArt and it made me so happy to meet someone that did it too.

It's interesting because people don't always feel and act the same way.
I watch a lot of true crime stuff, and people are so...judgemental and assume people are guilty because they aren't acting "normal".
And this one person I watch that covers stories, always says "People grieve in different ways."

And I had my cousins make fun of me and call me a school shooter just because I was quiet and kept to myself. Clearly that makes me suspicious. But I cry if I step on a snail - I couldn't hurt others xD

When my grandpa died, he was a third parent to me, I was utterly heartbroken. It hurt me so much. But I didn't want to be with my family - I wanted to be on the computer, talking to my friends.
That didn't mean I didn't love my grandpa or I hated my family - it's just how I deal with things.
And it surprised me because my uncle said "I know that's your thing, so go ahead." when I said I wanted to go to my room and be alone.

And I was actually thinking about body language last night. It's pretty cool to watch people and see them say one thing, but their body betrays them.
I often stand with my hand on my hip and my arms crossed - which are considered aggressive/hostile - it makes you seem angry.
But I usually stand like that because I don't know what to do with my arms and hands.
But I got to thinking that maybe, subconsciously, I stand like that because I want people to not approach me. Because I don't like dealing with people.

Death Candy: Hey 8u/
Talking about random stuff, I guess xD
If you meant in real life, nothing 8u;

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 Post subject: Re: Kat's Crumpet Collective
Posted: Dec 1st, '19, 22:41    


memoriam

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Oh, I know what you mean. I childhood my mom would often yell at us and my sister and I were both so nervous about it we just chose to see her make stupid faces while she was yelling and we laughed at her (which sometimes made her laugh, but other times it would set her off more). So I get it, for sure. Even now when I see her getting angry I just strat joking about it and it usually works to direct her attention to the jokes and laughs instead of anger.

Yeah, body language, hate that bitch xD I have a habit of fiddling with my ear, which supposedly means timidity and shyness. True about me. And sitting cross-legged or crossed arms, as you said, both mean something like "don't approach me". I actively try not to cross my arms, but I often cross my legs. Even while standing I prefer my legs be crossed instead of normally one beside the other. looks weird, but is comfortable xD I suppose it means the same thing though. I also have a terrible habit of walking with my head down, what makes me look sad or something but in reality I either just mind where I step or I just focus on my own thoughts and it's easier to focus when my eyes aren't distracted by the people, cars etc.

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 Post subject: Re: Kat's Crumpet Collective
Posted: Dec 2nd, '19, 03:54    


Moi

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I had family bitch at me and snap at me for asking simple questions all the time.
When someone throws a bitchfit, I'll laugh. Because it's ridiculous for a grown person to be acting like a child.

I have Resting Bitch Face, so that coupled with aggressive posture is probably a good way to make people leave me alone xD

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That's me smiling. That's mostly what you'll get out of me if I smile.
I'll feel like I'm smiling and look friendly and welcoming, but then you just see that xD

I've seen people point out where people will say something, but shake their head differently.
Like if someone asked someone if they killed someone - they'd say no, but nod their head.
I also heard blinking and looking away are indicators someone is lying.

One thing that I never liked was if you don't make eye contact - you're guilty.
I never made eye contact because I'm an anxious person and I don't like looking people in the eye because it makes me uncomfortable.
Then my therapist got me to look people in their eyes, but I would just stare non-stop and apparently that means I'm attracted to them which is not true and some other bullshit.

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 Post subject: Re: Kat's Crumpet Collective
Posted: Dec 2nd, '19, 07:13    


Kitalpha Hart

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-stares blankly in a random direction while in daydreamland-
Person: wow you've been staring at them for quite a while, you must think they're hot
Me, jolted back to reality: what person?
Person: the one you were staring at
Me: I wasn't staring at anyone tho
And then it devolves into what I know versus what they assume style of argument

My one band teacher has been known to freak students out before by doing that. Fortunately she catches on and apologizes

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 Post subject: Re: Kat's Crumpet Collective
Posted: Dec 2nd, '19, 14:40    


memoriam

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I have a resting sad face. I'm just in my head and people would come up to me asking what I'm so sad about. and when I tell them I'm not, they'd gladly argue with me that something must be wrong because I LOOK sad. I guess it's a problem because people assume they're always right.

I have a weird thing with eye contact. When someone talks to me, I'll keep eye contact, but when I'm the one speaking, I'll probably look someplace else. I have to remind myself to sometimes look away when somebody's talking with me or to look at the other person when I'm the one talking. I just usually stare into the space or someplace at their clothes.

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Dec 7th 2019, R.I.P. Candy. I'm sorry, my sweet little rumball...
Jan 8th 2020, R.I.P. Cotton. Farewell my golden adventurer </3
May 15th 2021, R.I.P. Kreska. I love you, angel...
Feb 3rd 2022, R.I.P. Kropka. Goodbye, my *starshine*
Nov 27th 2022, R.I.P. Strzałka. You will be missed, lazy ball.
Jan 5th 2023, R.I.P. Iskra. Spark until the end.
Jan 26th 2024, R.I.P. Mocha. You can fool around now, baby <3
Feb 22nd 2024, R.I.P. Latte. Now you are truly a free spirit...
May 29th 2025, R.I.P. Ścieżka. The toughest fighter. We miss you dearly.


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